true pleasure, and she answered,—“I
will tell you, and tell you a truth which perchance
ye may marvel at. One of the greatest benefits
God ever gave me is that he sent me so sharp and severe
parents and so gentle a schoolmaster. For when
I am in presence either of father or mother, whether
I speak, keep silence, sit, stand, or go, eat, drink,
be merry, or sad, be sewing, playing, dancing, or doing
anything else, I must do it as it were in such weight,
number, and measure, even so perfectly as God made
the world, or else I am so sharply taunted, so cruelly
threatened, yea, presently, sometimes with pinches,
nips, and bobs, and other ways, (which I will not
name for the honor I bear them,) so without measure
misordered, that I think myself in hell, till time
come that I must go to Mr. Elmer, who teacheth me so
gently, so pleasantly, with such fair allurements
to learning, that I think all the time nothing while
I am with him. And when I am called from him,
I fall on weeping, because whatsoever I do else beside
learning is full of grief, trouble, fear, and whole
misliking unto me. And thus my book hath been
so much my pleasure, and bringeth daily more pleasure
and more, that in respect of it all other pleasures,
in very deed, be but trifles and troubles to me.”
The Duke and Duchess of Suffolk were neither better
nor worse than other parents who tormented and tyrannized
over their children temp. Edward vi.,
and nothing but the prominence of the most unfortunate
of their unfortunate daughters has preserved the memory
of their domestic despotism. Throughout all England
it was the same, from palace to castle, and from castle
to hovel; and father and tyrant were convertible terms.
Youth must have been but a dreary time in those old
days. Scott’s Sir Henry Lee, according to
his son, kept strict rule over his children, and he
was a type of the antique knight, not of the debauched
cavalier, and would be obeyed, with or without reason.
The letters and the literature of the seventeenth
century show, that, how loose soever became other
ties, parents maintained their hold on their children
with iron hands. Even the license of the Restoration
left fatherly rule largely triumphant and undisputed.
When even “husbands, of decent station, were
not ashamed to beat their wives,” sons and daughters
were not spoiled by a sparing of the rod. Harshness
was the rule in every grade of life, and harsh indeed
was parental rule, until the reader wonders that there
was not a general rebellion of women, children, scholars,
and apprentices against the savage ascendency of husbands,
fathers, pedagogues, and masters.