and overbearing, than the same class in other parts
of the Union. On the contrary, there is an urbanity
about Southern slaveholders, that enables the lower
classes to approach them with less embarrassment than
they feel when they attempt to approach the frigid,
stiff, and less polite Northerner. Gentlemen
and ladies, in the Southern part of the United States,
are accustomed to treat every one that approaches
them, rich or poor, with a degree of civility and courteous
ease, that is unknown among the same class in any
other part of the civilized world. Their blandness
and kindness cannot fail to make the poor man feel
happier and better. If he is forced to approach
them for the purpose of soliciting aid, he is seldom
turned away empty. They are universally liberal
and hospitable. Having practiced medicine among
them twenty years, I have no recollection of a solitary
instance in which any of them made a long face, when
I made out a long bill for services. I will here
relate some anecdotes which will serve to illustrate
Southern character. Being pressed at a certain
time for two hundred dollars, and not having time
at my disposal to collect it, and having rendered
important services for a wealthy citizen near the town
in which I resided; I seated myself at my table, with
an intention of making out a bill against him that
would liquidate the claim against myself. With
considerable difficulty, I at length screwed up the
bill to two hundred dollars, and off I posted to his
house. I found him at home and presented the
bill; not without some misgivings, that perchance
he might take exceptions to the amount charged for
services. But I was disappointed, for after looking
over the bill a few moments, he remarked, “why
sir, you have not charged me half enough; you ought
to have charged me five hundred dollars.”
He paid the bill, made me a present of fifty dollars,
and told me that if I needed money at any time to
“call and get it.” At another time
I was employed by a gentleman to attend his son, who
had been, for several years previous to that time,
subject to epileptic attacks. The fee, per visit,
was stipulated at the outset, and I was paid for each
visit before leaving the house, according to contract.
I attended the young gentleman near two years, and
during the time was pressed for money and borrowed
one hundred dollars of the old gentleman, and executed
my note for that amount. Some years after I had
dismissed my patient, I called for my note, and presented
the amount, principal and interest. The gentleman
handed me the note, but refused to receive the money,
and when I pressed him to take it, he replied, “No
sir, I shall not receive the money, I always intended
to give it to you, provided that you cured my son,
and I presume he is well.”