of birth-control, by which the wife and mother is
relieved from that burden of unduly frequent and unwanted
maternity which in the past so often crushed her vitality
and destroyed her freshness. But many minor agencies
are helpful. To supply heat, light, and motive
power even to small households, to replace the wasteful,
extravagant, and often inefficient home-cookery by
meals cooked outside, as well as to facilitate the
growing social habit of taking meals in spacious public
restaurants, under more attractive, economical, and
wholesome conditions than can usually be secured within
the narrow confines of the home, to contract with specially
trained workers from outside for all those routines
of domestic drudgery which are often so inefficiently
and laboriously carried on by the household-worker,
whether mistress or servant, and to seek perpetually
by new devices to simplify, which often means to beautify,
all the everyday processes of life—to effect
this in any comprehensive degree is to transform the
home from the intolerable burden it is sometimes felt
to be into a possible haven of peace and joy.[15]
The trouble in the past, and even to-day, has been,
not in any difficulty in providing the facilities
but in prevailing people to adopt them. Thus in
England, even under the stress of the Great War, there
was among the working population a considerable disinclination—founded
on stupid conservatism and a meaningless pride—to
take advantage of National Kitchens and National Restaurants,
notwithstanding the superiority of the meals in quality,
cheapness, and convenience, to the workers’ home
meals, so that many of these establishments, even
while still fostered by the Government, had speedily
to close their doors. Ancient traditions, that
have now become not only empty but mischievous, in
these matters still fetter the wife even more than
the husband. We cannot regulate even the material
side of life without cultivating that intelligence
in the development of which civilisation so largely
consists.
[15] This aspect of the future of domesticity was
often set forth by Mrs. Havelock Ellis, The New
Horizon in Love and Life, 1921.
Intelligence, and even something more than intelligence,
is needed along the third line of progress towards
the modernised home. Simplification and organisation
can effect nothing in the desired transformation if
they merely end in themselves. They are only
helpful in so far as they economise energy, offer
a more ample leisure, and extend the opportunities
for that play of the intellect, that liberation of
the emotions with accompanying discipline of the primitive
instincts, which are needed not only for the development
of civilisation in general, but in particular of the
home. Domineering egotism, the assertion of greedy
possessive rights, are out of place in the modern
home. They are just as mischievous when exhibited
by the wife as by the husband. We have seen, as
we look back, the futility in the end of the ancient