“Ah! my poor friend, is that where you are?  Adieu, Paul.  Henceforth, I refuse to respect you.  One word more, however, for I cannot agree coldly to your abdication.  Look and see in what the strength of our position lies.  A bachelor with only six thousand francs a year remaining to him has at least his reputation for elegance and the memory of success.  Well, even that fantastic shadow has enormous value in it.  Life still offers many chances to the unmarried man.  Yes, he can aim at anything.  But marriage, Paul, is the social ’Thus far shalt thou go and no farther.’  Once married you can never be anything but what you then are—­unless your wife should deign to care for you.”

“But,” said Paul, “you are crushing me down with exceptional theories.  I am tired of living for others; of having horses merely to exhibit them; of doing all things for the sake of what may be said of them; of wasting my substance to keep fools from crying out:  ’Dear, dear!  Paul is still driving the same carriage.  What has he done with his fortune?  Does he squander it?  Does he gamble at the Bourse?  No, he’s a millionaire.  Madame such a one is mad about him.  He sent to England for a harness which is certainly the handsomest in all Paris.  The four-horse equipages of Messieurs de Marsay and de Manerville were much noticed at Longchamps; the harness was perfect’—­in short, the thousand silly things with which a crowd of idiots lead us by the nose.  Believe me, my dear Henri, I admire your power, but I don’t envy it.  You know how to judge of life; you think and act as a statesman; you are able to place yourself above all ordinary laws, received ideas, adopted conventions, and acknowledged prejudices; in short, you can grasp the profits of a situation in which I should find nothing but ill-luck.  Your cool, systematic, possibly true deductions are, to the eyes of the masses, shockingly immoral.  I belong to the masses.  I must play my game of life according to the rules of the society in which I am forced to live.  While putting yourself above all human things on peaks of ice, you still have feelings; but as for me, I should freeze to death.  The life of that great majority, to which I belong in my commonplace way, is made up of emotions of which I now have need.  Often a man coquets with a dozen women and obtains none.  Then, whatever be his strength, his cleverness, his knowledge of the world, he undergoes convulsions, in which he is crushed as between two gates.  For my part, I like the peaceful chances and changes of life; I want that wholesome existence in which we find a woman always at our side.”

“A trifle indecorous, your marriage!” exclaimed de Marsay.

Paul was not to be put out of countenance, and continued:  “Laugh if you like; I shall feel myself a happy man when my valet enters my room in the morning and says:  ‘Madame is awaiting monsieur for breakfast’; happier still at night, when I return to find a heart—­”