so much because they are too
lazy to earn their
bread, as because they are too
proud! And
what are the
consequences? Such a youth
remains or becomes a burden to his parents, of whom
he ought to be the comfort, if not the support.
Always aspiring to something higher than he can reach,
his life is a life of disappointment and of shame.
If marriage
befal him, it is a real affliction,
involving others as well as himself. His lot is
a thousand times worse than that of the common labouring
pauper. Nineteen times out of twenty a premature
death awaits him: and, alas! how numerous are
the cases in which that death is most miserable, not
to say ignominious!
Stupid pride is one of
the symptoms of
madness. Of the two madmen
mentioned in Don Quixote, one thought himself NEPTUNE,
and the other JUPITER. Shakspeare agrees with
CERVANTES; for, Mad Tom, in King Lear, being asked
who he is, answers, ‘I am a
tailor run
mad with
pride.’ How many have we
heard of, who claimed relationship with
noblemen
and
kings; while of not a few each has thought
himself the Son of God! To the public journals,
and to the observations of every one, nay, to the
‘
county-lunatic asylums’ (things
never heard of in England till now), I appeal for
the fact of the vast and hideous
increase of madness
in this country; and, within these very few years,
how many scores of young men, who, if their minds
had been unperverted by the gambling principles of
the day, had a probably long and happy life before
them; who had talent, personal endowments, love of
parents, love of friends, admiration of large circles;
who had, in short, everything to make life desirable,
and who, from mortified pride, founded on false pretensions,
have put an end to their own existence!
24. As to DRUNKENNESS and GLUTTONY, generally
so called, these are vices so nasty and beastly that
I deem any one capable of indulging in them to be
wholly unworthy of my advice; and, if any youth unhappily
initiated in these odious and debasing vices should
happen to read what I am now writing, I refer him
to the command of God, conveyed to the Israelites
by Moses, in Deuteronomy, chap. xxi. The father
and mother are to take the bad son ’and bring
him to the elders of the city; and they shall say
to the elders, This our son will not obey our voice:
he is a glutton and a drunkard.
And all the men of the city shall stone him with stones,
that he die.’ I refer downright beastly
gluttons and drunkards to this; but indulgence short,
far short, of this gross and really nasty drunkenness
and gluttony is to be deprecated, and that, too, with
the more earnestness because it is too often looked
upon as being no crime at all, and as having nothing
blameable in it; nay, there are many persons who pride
themselves on their refined taste in matters connected
with eating and drinking: so far from being ashamed