you; and there are many who will be seriously influenced
by any neglect of due attention to your personal appearance.
Besides the insensible effect produced on the most
ignorant and unreasonable spectator, those whom you
will most wish to please will look upon it, and with
justice, as an index to your mind; and a simple, graceful,
and well-ordered exterior will always give the impression
that similar qualities exist within. Dressing
well is some a natural and easy accomplishment; to
others, who may have the very same qualities existing
in their minds without the power (which is in a degree
mechanical) of displaying the same outward manifestation
of them, it will be much more difficult to attain the
same object with the same expense. Your study,
therefore, of the art of dress must be a double one,—must
first enable you to bring the smallest details of
your apparel into as close conformity as possible to
the forms and tastes of your mind, and, secondly,
enable you to reconcile this exercise of taste with
the duties of economy. If fashion is to be consulted
as well as taste, I fear that you will find this impossible;
if a gown or a bonnet is to be replaced by a new one,
the moment a slight alteration takes place in the
fashion of the shape or the colour, you will often
be obliged to sacrifice taste as well as duty.
Rather make up your mind to appear no richer than
you are; if you cannot afford to vary your dress according
to the rapidly—varying fashions, have the
moral courage to confess this in action. Nor will
your appearance lose much by the sacrifice. If
your dress is in accordance with true taste, the more
valuable of your acquaintance will be able to appreciate
that, while they would be unconscious of any strict
and expensive conformity to the fashions of the month.
Of course, I do not speak now of any glaring discrepancy
between your dress and the general costume of the
time. There could be no display of a simple taste
while any singularity in your dress attracted notice;
neither could there be much additional expense in
a moderate attention to the prevailing forms and colours
of the time,—for bonnets and gowns do not,
alas, last for ever. What I mean to deprecate
is the laying aside any one of these, which is suitable
in every other respect, lest it should reveal the secret
of your having expended nothing upon dress during
this season. Remember how many indulgences to
your generous nature would be procured by the price
of, a fashionable gown or bonnet, and your feelings
will provide a strong support to your duty. Another
way in which you may successfully practise economy
is by taking care of your clothes, having them repaired
in proper time, and neither exposing them to sun or
rain unnecessarily. A ten-guinea gown may be
sacrificed in half an hour, and the indolence of your
disposition would lead you to prefer this sacrifice
to the trouble of taking any preservatory precautions,
or thinking about the matter at all. Is this
right? Even if you can procure money to satisfy