XII. Society in Philadelphia—Social
Welcome for the British—Early
Instruction in Dancing—Formal
Dancing Assemblies.
XIII. The Beauty of Philadelphia
Women—Abigail Adams’ Description—The
Accomplished Mrs. Bingham—Introduction
of Social Fads—Contrasts
with New York Belles.
XIV. Social Functions—Lavish
Use of Wealth at Philadelphia—Washington’s
Birthday—Martha
Washington in Philadelphia—Domestic Ability
of the
Belles—Franklin
and his Daughter—General Wayne’s Statement
about
Philadelphia Gaiety.
XV. Theatrical Performances—Their
Growth in Popularity—Washington’s
Liking for Them—Mrs.
Adams’ Description—First Performance
in
New York, Charleston,
Williamsburg, Baltimore—Invading the
Stage—Throwing
Missiles.
XVI. Strange Customs in Louisiana—Passion
for Pleasure—Influence of
Creoles and Negroes—Habitat
for Sailors and West Indian
Ruffians—Reasons
for Vice—Accounts by Berquin-Duvallon—Commonness
of Concubinage—Alliott’s
Description—Reasons for Aversion to
Marriage—Corruptness
of Fathers and Sons—Drawing the Color
Line—Race
Prejudice at Balls—Fine Qualities of Louisiana
White
Women—Excess
in Dress—Lack of Education—Berquin-Duvallon’s
Disgust—The
Murder of Babes—General Conclusions.
CHAPTER VI—COLONIAL WOMAN AND MARRIAGE
I. New England Weddings—Lack
of Ceremony and Merrymaking—Freedom of
Choice for Women—The
Parents’ Permission—Evidence from
Sewall—Penalty
for Toying with the Heart—The Dowry.
II. Judge Sewall’s Courtships—Independence
of Colonial Women—Sewall
and Madam Winthrop—His
Friends’ Urgings—His Marriage to Mrs.
Tilley—Madam
Winthrop’s Hard-Hearted Manner—Sewall
Looks
Elsewhere for a Wife—Success
Again.
III. Liberty to Choose—Eliza
Pinckney’s Letter on the Matter—Betty
Sewall’s Rejection
of Lovers.
IV. The Banns and the Ceremony—Banns
Required in Nearly all
Colonies—Prejudice
against the Service of Preachers—Sewall’s
Descriptions of Weddings—Sewall’s
Efforts to Prevent Preachers
from Officiating—Refreshments
at Weddings—Increase in Hilarity.
V. Matrimonial Restrictions—Reasons
for Them—Frequency of
Bigamy—Monthly
Fines—Marriage with Relatives.
VI. Spinsters—Youthful
Marriages—Bachelors and Spinsters Viewed
with
Suspicion—Fate
of Old Maids—Description of a Boston Spinster.
VII. Separation and Divorce—Rarity
of Them—Separation in Sewall’s
Family—Its
Tragedy and Comedy.
VIII. Marriage in Pennsylvania—Approach
Toward Laxness—Ben
Franklin’s Marriage—Quaker
Marriages—Strange Mating among
Moravians—Dutch
Marriages.