It is apparent that the spirit of independence, if not of stubbornness, was strong in Mrs. Samuel, Jr.  At length, what seems to have been the true motive, jealousy on the part of the husband, appears in the record by the father, and from all the evidence Samuel might well be jealous, as future events will show.  To return to the Diary:  “Sam and his Wife dine here, go home together in the Calash.  William Ilsly rode and pass’d by them.  My son warn’d him not to lodge at his house; Daughter said she had as much to doe with the house as he.  Ilsly lodg’d there.  Sam grew so ill on Satterday, that instead of going to Roxbury he was fain between Meetings to take his Horse, and come hither; to the surprise of his Mother who was at home...."[265] A few days later:  “Sam is something better; yet full of pain; He told me with Tears that these sorrows would bring him to his Grave...."[266]

It appears that the daughter-in-law was, for the most part, silent but vigilant; for about five weeks after the above entry Judge Sewall records:  “My Son Joseph and I visited my Son at Brooklin, sat with my Daughter in the chamber some considerable time, Drank Cider, eat Apples.  Daughter said nothing to us of her Grievances, nor we to her...."[267] The lady, however, while she might control her tongue, could not control her pen, and just when harmony was on the point of being restored, a letter from her gave the affair a most serious backset.  “Son Sewall intended to go home on the Horse Tom brought, sent some of his Linen by him; but when I came to read his wive’s letter to me, his Mother was vehemently against his going:  and I was for considering....  Visited Mr. Walter, staid long with him, read my daughters Letters to her Husband and me; yet he still advis’d to his going home....  My wife can’t yet agree to my Son’s going home...."[268]

Sam seems to have remained at his father’s home.  The matter was taken up by the parents, apparently in the hope that they with their greater wisdom might be able to bring about an understanding.  “Went a foot to Roxbury.  Govr.  Dudley was gon to his Mill.  Staid till he came home.  I acquainted him what my Business was; He and Madam Dudley both reckon’d up the Offenses of my Son; and He the Virtues of his Daughter.  And alone, mention’d to me the hainous faults of my wife, who the very first word ask’d my daughter why she married my Son except she lov’d him?  I saw no possibility of my Son’s return; and therefore asked that he would make some Proposals, and so left it...."[269]

Thus the months lengthened into years, and still the couple were apart.  Meanwhile the scandal was increased by the birth of a child to the wife.  Samuel had left her on January 22, 1714, and did not return to her until March 3, 1718; apparently the child was born during the summer of 1717.  The Judge, in sore straits, records on August 29, 1717; “Went, according, after a little waiting on some Probat business to Govr.  Dudley.  I said my Son had all along insisted that Caution should be given, that the infant lately born should not be chargeable to his Estate.  Govr.  Dudley no ways came into it; but said ’twas best as ’twas no body knew whose ’twas [word illegible,] to bring it up."[270]