“Satterday, Nov.
12, 1687. About 5 P.M. Mrs. Elisa Saffen
is
entombed.... Mother
not invited."[187]
In the earlier days of the New England colonies the gift of scarfs, gloves, and rings for such services was almost demanded by social etiquette; but before Judge Sewall’s death the custom was passing. The following passages from his Diary illustrate the change:
“Decr. 20, feria sexta.... Had a letter brought me of the Death of Sister Shortt.... Not having other Mourning I look’d out a pair of Mourning Gloves. An hour or 2 later Mr. Sergeant, sent me and Wife Gloves; mine are so little I can’t wear them."[188]
“August 7r 16,
1721. Mrs. Frances Webb is buried, who died of
the
Small Pox. I think
this is the first public Funeral without
Scarves...."[189]
The Puritans were not the only colonists to celebrate death with pomp and ceremony; but no doubt the custom was far more nearly universal among them than among the New Yorkers or Southerners. Still, in New Amsterdam a funeral was by no means a simple or dreary affair; feasting, exchange of gifts, and display were conspicuous elements at the burial of the wealthy or aristocratic. The funeral of William Lovelace in 1689 may serve as an illustration:
“The room was draped with mourning and adorned with the escutcheons of the family. At the head of the body was a pall of death’s heads, and above and about the hearse was a canopy richly embroidered, from the centre of which hung a garland and an hour-glass. At the foot was a gilded coat of arms, four feet square, and near by were candles and fumes which were kept continually burning. At one side was placed a cupboard containing plate to the value of L200. The funeral procession was led by the captain of the company to which deceased belonged, followed by the ‘preaching minister,’ two others of the clergy, and a squire bearing the shield. Before the body, which was borne by six ‘gentlemen bachelors,’ walked two maidens in white silk, wearing gloves and ‘Cyprus scarves,’ and behind were six others similarly attired, bearing the pall.... Until ten o’clock at night wines, sweet-meats, and biscuits were served to the mourners."[190]
VI. Trials and Executions