when he arrives, and they return his call at the same
hour soon after. If he is a married man, the
married men upon whom he has called take their wives
to call upon his; and he takes his to return the call
of theirs. These calls are all indispensable;
and being made in the forenoon, become very disagreeable
in the hot season; all complain of them, yet no one
forgoes his claim upon them; and till the claim is
fulfilled, people will not recognize each other as
acquaintances.[7] Unmarried officers generally dine
in the evening, because it is a more convenient hour
for the mess; and married civil functionaries do the
same, because it is more convenient for their office
work. If you invite those who dine at that hour
to spend the evening with you, you must invite them
to dinner, even in the hot weather; and if they invite
you, it is to dinner. This makes intercourse
somewhat heavy at all times, but more especially so
in the hot season, when a table covered with animal
food is sickening to any person without a keen appetite,
and stupefying to those who have it. No one thinks
of inviting people to a dinner and ball—it
would be vandalism; and when you invite them, as is
always the case, to come after dinner, the ball never
begins till late at night, and seldom ends till late
in the morning. With all its disadvantages, however,
I think dining in the evening much better for those
who are in health, than dining in the afternoon, provided
people can avoid the intermediate meal of tiffin.
No person in India should eat animal food more than
once a day; and people who dine in the evening generally
eat less than they would if they dined in the afternoon.
A light breakfast at nine; biscuit, or a slice of
toast with a glass of water, or soda-water, at two
o’clock, and dinner after the evening exercise,
is the plan which I should recommend every European
to adopt as the most agreeable.[8] When their digestive
powers get out of order, people must do as the doctors
tell them.
There is, I believe, no society in which there is
more real urbanity of manners than in that of India—a
more general disposition on the part of its different
members to sacrifice their own comforts and conveniences
to those of others, and to make those around them happy,
without letting them see that it costs them an effort
to do so.[9] There is assuredly no society where the
members are more generally free from those corroding
cares and anxieties which ’weigh upon the hearts’
of men whose incomes are precarious, and position in
the world uncertain. They receive their salaries
on a certain day every month, whatever may be the
state of the seasons or of trade; they pay no taxes;
they rise in the several services by rotation;[10]
religious feelings and opinions are by common consent
left as a question between man and his Maker; no one
ever thinks of questioning another about them, nor
would he be tolerated if he did so. Most people
take it for granted that those which they got from
their parents were the right ones; and as such they
cherish them. They remember with feelings of
filial piety the prayers which they in their infancy
offered to their Maker, while kneeling by the side
of their mothers; and they continue to offer them
up through life, with the same feelings and the same
hopes.[11]