One should sit facing either the east or the north
while undergoing a shave at the hands of the barber.
By so doing, O great king, one succeeds in acquiring
a long life. One should never indulge in other
people’s calumny or self-reproach, for, O chief
of the Bharatas, it is said that calumny is sinful,
whether of others or of oneself. In wedding,
one should avoid a woman that is deficient of any
limb. A maiden too, if such, should also be avoided.
A woman of the same Pravaras should also be avoided;
as also one that has any malformation; as also one
that has been born in the race to which one’s
mother belongs.[480] One possessed of wisdom should
never have sexual congress with a woman that is old,
or one that has abandoned the domestic mode of life
for entering the forest mode, or one that is true to
her lord, or one whose organs of generation are not
healthy or well-formed.[481] It behoveth thee not
to wed a woman that is of a yellow complexion, or one
that is afflicted with leprosy, or one born in a family
in which there has been epilepsy, or one that is low
in birth and habits, or one that is born in a family
in which the disease called Switra (leprosy) has appeared,
or one belonging by birth to a race in which there
are early deaths. Only that maiden who is endued
with auspicious indications, and who is accomplished
for qualifications of diverse kinds, who is agreeable
and handsome, should be wedded. One should wed,
O Yudhishthira, in a family that is higher or at least
equal to one’s own. One who is desirous
of one’s own prosperity, should never wed a woman
that is of an inferior order or that has fallen away
from the order of her birth. Carefully igniting
the fire, one should accomplish all those acts which
have been ordained and declared in the Vedas or by
the Brahmanas.[482] One should never seek to injure
women. Spouses should always be protected.
Malice always shortens life. Hence, one should
always abstain from cherishing malice. Sleep
at day-time shortens life. To sleep after the
sun has risen shortens life. They who sleep at
any of the twilights, or at nightfall or who go to
sleep in a state of impurity, have their lives shortened.
Adultery always shortens life. One should not
remain in a state of impurity after shaving.[483]
One should, O Bharata, carefully abstain from studying
or reciting the Vedas, and eating, and bathing, at
eventide. When the evening twilight comes, one
should collect one’s senses for meditation,
without doing any act. One should, O king, bathe
and then worship the Brahmanas. Indeed, one should
bathe before worshipping the deities and reverentially
saluting the preceptor. One should never go to
a sacrifice unless invited. Indeed, one may go
there without an invitation if one wishes only to
see how the sacrifice is conducted. If one goes
to a sacrifice (for any other purpose) without an
invitation and if one does not, on that account, receive
proper worship from the sacrificer, one’s life
becomes shortened. One should never go alone