Vaishampayana continued, “While king Dhritarashtra was indulging in such lamentations, Sanjaya addressed him in the following words for dispelling his grief, Cast off thy grief, O monarch!  Thou hast heard the conclusions of the Vedas and the contents of diverse scriptures and holy writ, from the lips of the old, O king!  Thou hast heard those words which the sages said unto Sanjaya while the latter was afflicted with grief on account of the death of his son.  When thy son, O monarch, caught the pride that is born of youth, thou didst not accept the counsels offered unto thee by thy well-wishers.  Desirous of fruit, thou didst not, through covetousness, do what was really for thy benefit.  Thy own intelligence, like a sharp sword, has wounded thee.  Thou didst generally pay court to those that were of wicked behaviour.  Thy son had Duhshasana for his counsellor, and the wicked-souled son of Radha, and the equally wicked Shakuni and Citrasena of foolish understanding, and Salya.  Thy son (by his own behaviour) made the whole world his enemy.  Thy son, O Bharata, did not obey the words of Bhishma, the reverend chief of the Kurus, of Gandhari and Vidura, of Drona, O king, of Kripa the son of Sharadvata, of the mighty-armed Krishna, of the intelligent Narada, of many other rishis, and of Vyasa himself of immeasurable energy.  Though possessed of prowess, thy son was of little intelligence, proud, always desirous of battle, wicked, ungovernable, and discontented.  Thou art possessed of learning and intelligence and art always truthful.  They that are so righteous and possessed of such intelligence as thou, are never stupefied by grief.  Virtue was regarded by none of them.  Battle was the one word on their lips.  For this the Kshatriya order has been exterminated and the fame of thy foes enhanced.  Thou hadst occupied the position of an umpire, but thou didst not utter one word of salutary advise.  Unfitted as thou wert for the task, thou didst not hold the scales evenly.  Every person should, at the outset, adopt such a beneficial line of action that he may not have, in the end, to repent for something already done by him.  Through affection for thy son, O monarch, thou didst what was agreeable to Duryodhana.  Thou art obliged to repent for that now.  It behoveth thee, however not to give way to grief.  The man whose eyes are directed towards only the honey without being once directed to the fall, meets with destruction through his covetousness for honey.  Such a man is obliged to repent even like thee.  The man who indulges in grief never wins wealth.  By grieving one loses the fruits one desires.  Grief is again an obstacle to the acquisition of objects dear to us.  The man who gives way to grief loses even his salvation.  The man who shrouds a burning coal within the folds of his attire and is burnt by the fire that is kindled by it, would be pronounced a fool if he grieves for his injuries.  Thyself, with thy son, hadst, with your words, fanned the Partha-fire,