even if he happens to be possessed of sons and grandsons
and even if he counts a hundred years, looks like a
child of but two years of age. Able or disabled,
lean or robust, the son is always protected by the
mother. None else, according to the ordinance,
is the son’s protector. Then doth the son
become old, then doth he become stricken with grief,
then doth the world look empty in his eyes, when he
becomes deprived of his mother. There is no shelter
(protection against the sun) like the mother.
There is no refuge like the mother. There is no
defence like the mother. There is no one so dear
as the mother. For having borne him in her womb
the mother is the son’s Dhatri. For having
been the chief cause of his birth, she is his Janani.
For having nursed his young limbs into growth, she
is called Amva. For bringing forth a child possessed
of courage she is called Virasu. For nursing and
looking after the son she is called Sura. The
mother is one’s own body. What rational
man is there that would slay his mother, to whose care
alone it is due that his own head did not lie on the
street-side like a dry gourd? When husband and
wife unite themselves for procreation, the desire
cherished with respect to the (unborn) son are cherished
by both, but in respect of their fruition more depends
upon the mother than on the sire.[1206] The mother
knows the family in which the son is born and the
father who has begotten him. From the moment of
conception the mother begins to show affection to
her child and takes delight in her. (For this reason,
the son should behave equally towards her). On
the other hand, the scriptures declare that the offspring
belongs to the father alone. If men, after accepting
the hands of wives in marriage and pledging themselves
to earn religious merit without being dissociated from
them, seek congress with other people’s wives,
they then cease to be worthy of respect.[1207] The
husband, because he supports the wife, is called Bhartri,
and, because he protects her, he is on that account
called Pati. When these two functions disappear
from him, he ceases to be both Bhartri and Pati.[1208]
Then again woman can commit no fault. It is man
only that commits faults. By perpetrating an
act of adultery, the man only becomes stained with
guilt.[1209] It has been said that the husband is the
highest object with the wife and the highest deity
to her. My mother gave up her sacred person to
one that came to her in the form and guise of her
husband. Women can commit no fault. It is
man who becomes stained with fault. Indeed, in
consequence of the natural weakness of the sex as
displayed in every act, and their liability to solicitation,
women cannot be regarded as offenders. Then again
the sinfulness (in this case) is evident of Indra
himself who (by acting in the way he did) caused the
recollection of the request that had been made to him
in days of yore by woman (when a third part of the
sin of Brahmanicide of which Indra himself was guilty