Broken Homes eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 142 pages of information about Broken Homes.

Broken Homes eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 142 pages of information about Broken Homes.
with him: 
“Man at District Office—­Visitor started in immediately with the subject in hand, thinking he was the sort that would respond to absolutely direct dealing.  Explained to him that we had been given to understand his wife was ill, not only from alcoholism but also from other complications; that it was suspected there might be some difficulty with her blood and that we had been advised that her mental condition was not now as strong as it had been previously.  Explained to him that he was absolutely responsible for his wife, for her support, and for her care and protection, and that no matter how far he traveled, his responsibility remained the same; that he had assumed this when he married her.  Said that he felt no responsibility for her whatsoever, that he had done all he ever would do for her and intended to devote his efforts toward his child.  Visitor explained to him that woman’s intemperance might perfectly well be a disease over which it would be very difficult for her to have control; that, moreover, if she were suffering also from a blood condition, this should have treatment.  Explained that he would more nearly meet his responsibilities were he to have her examined and send her where she could procure the treatment required, even if it meant commitment to an institution.  At this point man seemed more interested, particularly as visitor told him that Arthur would grow up and would want to know where his mother was and what had become of her; and if man had left her sick and alone, at the mercy of strangers, he would not be able to give an adequate accounting to his son.  Man’s reaction was not what visitor had expected—­he would be glad to put her away where she could not trouble him any more but he did not intend to expend any more money.  Said he was under too heavy expenses with Arthur.  Claimed he was making $70 a month, and visitor forced him to add that he got in addition his board and lodging on the ship, so that he was under no expense except when on shore leave.  Visitor repeated that as a husband he was required to pay for woman’s care, that that was the right thing to do; that one way he would be a husband deserting his wife, liable to arrest for non-support and desertion, and the other way a husband with a sick wife for whom he was willing to provide the medical attention and care that every sick person has a right to have.  He said if it was a question of a few dollars a week, he supposed he would be willing to do it, and visitor felt he really was willing to do the right thing if he only could be assured that woman would not interfere with Arthur.  Said he would never let woman see the child, but finally admitted, if she were not drunk and was in the hospital and it would do any good, he supposed she could.”

With persistent or recalcitrant deserters as a group, court action has very often to be invoked.  Procedure in this direction differs so much in different communities

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