And as good behavior is the root of good manners, so self-control is the root of all true self-culture.  We hear a great deal now-a-days about culture, cultured people, cultivated society, etc., and it is a good and natural wish to possess culture and to be classed among cultured people.  Intelligence and good manners are the only passport into the charmed circle.  Self-control will enable us to become possessed of both.  It will enable us to restrain ourselves from all rude, loud, hasty, ungentle speech and action, help us to modulate our voices, and even cultivate our laughter.  It will also enable us, through mental application and effort, to acquire knowledge.  So abundant are the intellectual treasures now brought within the reach of everyone by the cheapness of standard educational works of every kind, that the young person who is not intelligent through reading and study has only himself or herself to blame.  Self-control will help you to study and learn faithfully when you are in school; it will help you to decide upon and carry out some useful course of reading and study if you are not in school; and this, even though you have many other duties to perform.  In every town and village may be found persons competent to advise and direct courses of study and reading for those who have the energy to pursue them.  You will have no excuse at any period of your life for failure to progress and improve intellectually, except your own inability to compel yourself to make use of the opportunities that lie all around you.

It is hardly necessary for me to remind you of what you know so well, that in reading you should choose only the best books.  We may without harm divert the mind for a little each day by light miscellaneous reading, but young people especially need to be warned against indiscriminate novel or story reading.  Here again the virtue of self-control comes in to help do the right and avoid the wrong.  If you discover that your taste is more for the improbable highly-wrought pages of fiction than for such works as are known to everyone as standard and improving, let it be a sign to you that you should summon your self-control and compel yourself to a different sort of reading.  If you find that you cannot relish or fix your mind upon standard works of history biography, travel, or any of the many excellent books written to bring scientific knowledge within the comprehension of the general reader, then you may conclude rightly that your mind is in a very uncultivated state.

Your own efforts and determination—­in other words, your power of self-control—­alone can effect anything worthy in self-culture.  To attain the power of self-control in a high degree is one of the greatest and most important aims we can set before us in life.  I do not believe it can ever be attained in our own strength.  To rightly control temper and speech and conduct requires help from the divine Spirit which is always around and over us, and within us, if we will but let our hearts