Herman Kreder had always done everything his mother and his father wanted but he did not really love his parents very deeply.  With Herman it was always only that he hated to have any struggle.  It was all always all right with him when he could just go along and do the same thing over every day with his working, and not to hear things, and not to have people make him listen to their anger.  And now his marriage, and he just knew it would, was making trouble for him.  It made him hear more what his mother was always saying, with her scolding.  He had to really hear it now because Lena was there, and she was so scared and dull always when she heard it.  Herman knew very well with his mother, it was all right if one ate very little and worked hard all day and did not hear her when she scolded, the way Herman always had done before they were so foolish about his getting married and having a girl there to be all the time around him, and now he had to help her so the girl could learn too, not to hear it when his mother scolded, and not to look so scared, and not to eat much, and always to be sure to save it.

Herman really did not know very well what he could do to help Lena to understand it.  He could never answer his mother back to help Lena, that never would make things any better for her, and he never could feel in himself any way to comfort Lena, to make her strong not to hear his mother, in all the awful ways she always scolded.  It just worried Herman to have it like that all the time around him.  Herman did not know much about how a man could make a struggle with a mother, to do much to keep her quiet, and indeed Herman never knew much how to make a struggle against anyone who really wanted to have anything very badly.  Herman all his life never wanted anything so badly, that he would really make a struggle against any one to get it.  Herman all his life only wanted to live regular and quiet, and not talk much and to do the same way every day like every other with his working.  And now his mother had made him get married to this Lena and now with his mother making all that scolding, he had all this trouble and this worry always on him.

Mrs. Haydon did not see Lena now very often.  She had not lost her interest in her niece Lena, but Lena could not come much to her house to see her, it would not be right, now Lena was a married woman.  And then too Mrs. Haydon had her hands full just then with her two daughters, for she was getting them ready to find them good husbands, and then too her own husband now worried her very often about her always spoiling that boy of hers, so he would be sure to turn out no good and be a disgrace to a german family, and all because his mother always spoiled him.  All these things were very worrying now to Mrs. Haydon, but still she wanted to be good to Lena, though she could not see her very often.  She only saw her when Mrs. Haydon went to call on Mrs. Kreder or when Mrs. Kreder came to see Mrs. Haydon, and that never could