court and served their chosen prince in war or at the
council-table, or even in humbler offices of state.
To be able, therefore, to conduct himself with dignity,
to know how to win the favor of his master and to
secure the good-will of his peers, to retain his personal
honor and to make himself respected without being
hated, to inspire admiration and to avoid envy, to
outshine all honorable rivals in physical exercises
and the craft of arms, to maintain a credable equipage
and retinue, to be instructed in the arts of polite
intercourse, to converse with ease and wit, to be
at home alike in the tilting-yard, the banquet-hall,
the boudoir, and the council-chamber, to understand
diplomacy, to live before the world and yet to keep
a fitting privacy and distance,—these and
a hundred other matters were the climax and perfection
of the culture of a gentleman. Courts being now
the only centers in which it was possible for a man
of birth and talents to shine, it followed that the
perfect courtier and the perfect gentleman were synonymous
terms. Castiglione’s treatise may therefore
be called an essay on the character of the true gentleman
as he appeared in Italy. Eliminating all qualities
that are special to any art or calling, he defines
those essential characteristics which were requisite
for social excellence in the sixteenth century.
It is curious to observe how unchangeable are the
laws of real politeness and refinement. Castiglione’s
courtier is, with one or two points of immaterial
difference, a modern gentleman, such as all men of
education at the present day would wish to be.
The first requisite in the ideal courtier is that
he must be noble. The Count of Canossa, who proposed
the subject of debate, lays down this as an axiom.
Gaspar Pallavicino denies the necessity[1] But after
a lively discussion, his opinion is overruled, on
the ground that, although the gentle virtues may be
found among people of obscure origin, yet a man who
intends to be a courtier must start with the prestige
of noble birth. Next he must be skillful in the
use of weapons and courageous in the battle-field.
He is not, however, bound to have the special science
of a general, nor must he in times of peace profess
unique devotion to the art of war: that would
argue a coarseness of nature or vainglory. Again,
he must excel in all manly sports and exercises, so
as, if possible, to beat the actual professors of
each game, or feat of skill on their own ground.
Yet here also he should avoid mere habits of display,
which are unworthy of a man who aspires to be a gentleman
and not an athlete. Another indispensable quality
is gracefulness in all he does and says. In order
to secure this elegance, he must beware of every form
of affectation: ’Let him shun affectation,
as though it were a most perilous rock; and let him
seek in everything a certain carelessness, to hide
his art, and show that what he says or does comes from
him without effort or deliberation.’ This