and for the growth of that feeling of reverence for
the fair sex which was to form so important an element
in the boys’ later life. The “gentle
damoiseau,” confided at the age of seven or
eight to the care of a knight whose reputation for
prowess and courtesy ensured a good example, learned
modesty and obedience in the performance of menial
services, then considered honorable; in the court-yard
of the castle he was instructed in horsemanship, and
in the use of the lance, the bow, and the sword.
In the dangers and hardships of the chase the principal
occupation in time of peace,—he was inured
to fatigue, hunger, and pain; he learned to sound
the horn at the different stages of the hunt, to dress
the game when killed, and to carve it on the table.[9]
He waited upon the ladies in their apartments as upon
superior beings, whose service, even the most menial,
was an honor. While yet a damoiseau, and before
he had attained the rank of squire, the youth was
expected to choose one girl who should receive his
special admiration and service, in whose name his
future knightly deeds should be performed, who should
be his inspiration in battle, the reward of his valor,
and the object of his gallantry. In the loves
of Amadis and Oriana, so famous in romance, we have
a simple and charming description of the first budding
of the chivalric sentiment. “Oriana was
about ten years old, the fairest creature that ever
was seen; wherefore she was called the one ‘without
a peer.’ * * * The Child of the Sea (Amadis)
was now twelve years old, but in stature and size he
seemed fifteen, and he served the queen; but now that
Oriana was there, the queen gave her the Child of
the Sea, that he should serve her, and Oriana said
that ‘it pleased her’; and that word which
she said the child kept in his heart, so that he never
lost it from his memory, and in all his life he was
never weary of serving her, and his heart was surrendered
to her; and this love lasted as long as they lasted,
for as well as he loved her did she also love him.
But the Child of the Sea, who knew nothing of her
love, thought himself presumptuous to have placed his
thoughts on her, and dared not speak to her; and she,
who loved him in her heart, was careful not to speak
more with him than with another; but their eyes delighted
to reveal to the heart what was the thing on earth
that they loved best. And now the time came that
he thought he could take arms if he were knighted;
and this he greatly desired, thinking that he would
do such things that, if he lived, his mistress should
esteem him."[10]
Life in a Norman castle was at best hard and comfortless. In summer it was enlivened by hunting and hawking, by tournaments and pageantry. The gardens which usually surrounded a castle formed a resource for the female portion of the inhabitants, who are often represented in the illuminations of the time as occupied in tending the flowers or in making garlands. But in winter there were few comforts to lessen the suffering, and