A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 2 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 284 pages of information about A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 2.

A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 2 eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 284 pages of information about A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 2.
and desired him to speak no more about that.  He told them, that he was plain, and that he would have all things done plainly; for he sought not any outward advantage to himself.  So, after he had acquainted the children with it, their intention of marriage was laid before Friends, both privately and publicly;” and afterwards a meeting being appointed for the accomplishment of the marriage, in the public Meeting-house at Broad Mead, in Bristol, they took each other in marriage, in the plain and simple manner as then practised, and which he himself had originally recommended to his followers.

[Footnote 1:  G. Fox’s Journal, Vol. 2. p. 135.]

The regulations concerning marriage, and the manner of the celebration of it, which obtained in the time of George Fox, nearly obtain among the Quakers of the present day.

When marriage is agreed upon between two persons, the man and the woman, at one of the monthly meetings, publicly declare their intention, and ask leave to proceed.  At this time their parents, if living, must either appear, or send certificates to signify their consent.  This being done, two men are appointed by the men’s meeting, and two women are appointed by that of the women, to wait upon the man and woman respectively, and to learn from themselves, as well as by other inquiry, if they stand perfectly clear from any marriage-promises and engagements to others.  At the next monthly meeting the deputation make their report.  If either of the parties is reported to have given expectation of marriage to any other individual, the proceedings are stopped till the matter be satisfactorily explained.  But if they are both of them reported to be clear in this respect, they are at liberty to proceed, and one or more persons of respectability of each sex, are deputed to see that the marriage be conducted in an orderly manner.

In the case of second marriages, additional instructions are sometimes given; for if any of the parties thus intimating their intentions of marrying should have children alive, the same persons, who were deputed to inquire into their clearness from all other engagements, are to see that the rights of such children be legally secured.

When the parties are considered to be free, by the reports of the deputation, to proceed upon their union, they appoint a suitable day for the celebration of it, which is generally one of the week-day meetings for worship.  On this day they repair to the Meeting-house with their friends.  The congregation, when seated, sit in silence.  Perhaps some minister is induced to speak.  After a suitable time has elapsed, the man and the woman rise up together, and, taking each other by the hand, declare publicly, that they thus take each other as husband and wife.  This constitutes their marriage.  By way, however, of evidence of their union, a paper is signed by the man and woman, in the presence of three witnesses, who sign it also, in which it is stated that they have so taken each

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