they become acquainted with thee, they’ll only
have the better means of judging thee truly.”
“If I say nothing about it, though,” urged
I, “she’ll feel encouraged to talk on,
and worse.” “If thou dost find she
is really doing thee an injury,” returned Aunty,
“I’ll not dissuade thee from taking it
in hand; but, as it now stands, it is not worth disturbing
thyself about.” “I could make her
feel so ashamed,” persisted I. “I
don’t doubt thee,” replied she, laughing;
“I don’t doubt thee in the least:
but in doing so, won’t thou get excited?
Won’t thou sleep better, and study better, and
waste less time, if thou just ‘let well enough
alone?’” “That seems a favorite maxim
with you,” observed I. “I have found
it a very useful one,” she answered; “and,
had I known its value earlier in life, I might have
escaped a good deal of suffering. Ten years ago,
I had a kind husband, and a promising son, and slowly,
yet surely, they were gathering a pretty competence.
We thought we could gather faster by going south;
but the location proved unhealthy, and in one season
I lost them both by a bilious fever.” Sympathy
kept me silent. “You would not discourage
all attempts to better one’s condition?”
I at length inquired. “By no means,”
answered Aunt Rachel; “for that were to check
energy and retard improvement. I would only advise
people—impulsive people especially—to
think before they act: for it is always
easier to avoid an evil than to remedy it. Thou
art fond of History,” she continued, “and
that, both sacred and profane, abounds with examples
of those who, in the day of adversity or retribution,
have wished, oh how earnestly, that they had let well
enough alone. Jacob, an exile from his father’s
house: Shimei, witnessing the return of David:
Zenobia, high-spirited and accustomed to homage, gracing
Aurelian’s triumph, and living a captive in
Rome: Christina, after she had relinquished the
crown of Sweden; and, in our own days, Great Britain,
involved in a long and losing war with her American
colonies. Every-day life, too, is full of such
examples.” I asked her to mention some.
“Thou canst see one,” she answered, “in
the speculator, whose anxiety for sudden wealth has
reduced his family to indigence; and in the girl who
leaves her plain country home, and sacrifices her
health, and perhaps her virtue, in a city workshop.
Disputatious people, passionate people, those who indulge
in personalities, and those who meddle with what don’t
concern them, are very apt to wish they had let well
enough alone. People who are forever changing
their residence or their store, their clerks, or their
domestics, frequently find reason for such a wish.
Even in household affairs, my maxim saves me many
an hour of unnecessary labor. Dost thou remember
the bedstead?” she added, with a smile.
“Yes, indeed,” I answered; “I shall
never forget that. The other day I was going
to alter my pink dress into a wrapper, like Miss Mansell’s;
but the thought of that old bedstead stopped me; and
I’m glad of it; for, now that I look again,
I don’t think it would pay me for the trouble.”
“Well, think again before thou dost notice Jane
Ansley’s talk,” said Aunty. I followed
her advice; and I have never regretted that I did
so.