is strangely identical with what we have all known
it to be in the happiest homes. Nothing, as I
remember, smote me with more grief and pity (all the
more poignant because perplexingly entangled with an
inclination to smile) than to hear a gaunt and ragged
mother priding herself on the pretty ways of her ragged
and skinny infant, just as a young matron might, when
she invites her lady-friends to admire her plump, white-robed
darling in the nursery. Indeed, no womanly characteristic
seemed to have altogether perished out of these poor
souls. It was the very same creature whose tender
torments make the rapture of our young days, whom we
love, cherish, and protect, and rely upon in life
and death, and whom we delight to see beautify her
beauty with rich robes and set it off with jewels,
though now fantastically masquerading in a garb of
tatters, wholly unfit for her to handle. I recognized
her, over and over again, in the groups round a door-step
or in the descent of a cellar, chatting with prodigious
earnestness about intangible trifles, laughing for
a little jest, sympathizing at almost the same instant
with one neighbor’s sunshine and another’s
shadow, wise, simple, sly, and patient, yet easily
perturbed, and breaking into small feminine ebullitions
of spite, wrath, and jealousy, tornadoes of a moment,
such as vary the social atmosphere of her silken-skirted
sisters, though smothered into propriety by dint of
a well-bred habit. Not that there was an absolute
deficiency of good-breeding, even here. It often
surprised me to witness a courtesy and deference among
these ragged folks, which, having seen it, I did not
thoroughly believe in, wondering whence it should have
come. I am persuaded, however, that there were
laws of intercourse which they never violated,—a
code of the cellar, the garret, the common staircase,
the doorstep, and the pavement, which perhaps had
as deep a foundation in natural fitness as the code
of the drawing-room.
Yet again I doubt whether I may not have been uttering
folly in the last two sentences, when I reflect how
rude and rough these specimens of feminine character
generally were. They had a readiness with their
hands that reminded me of Molly Seagrim and other
heroines in Fielding’s novels. For example,
I have seen a woman meet a man in the street, and,
for no reason perceptible to me, suddenly clutch him
by the hair and cuff his ears,—an infliction
which he bore with exemplary patience, only snatching
the very earliest opportunity to take to his heels.
Where a sharp tongue will not serve the purpose, they
trust to the sharpness of their finger-nails, or incarnate
a whole vocabulary of vituperative words in a resounding
slap, or the downright blow of a doubled fist.
All English people, I imagine, are influenced in a
far greater degree than ourselves by this simple and
honest tendency, in cases of disagreement, to batter
one another’s persons; and whoever has seen a
crowd of English ladies (for instance, at the door