Having found just the combination of rooms that suggests a real home to you, go slowly about your decorating.

It is almost imperative that the woodwork and walls should have the same finish throughout the apartment, unless you wish to find yourself living in a crazy-quilt of unfriendly colors.  I have seen four room apartments in which every room had a different wall paper and different woodwork.  The “parlor” was papered with poisonous-looking green paper, with imitation mahogany woodwork; the dining-room had walls covered with red burlap and near-oak woodwork; the bedroom was done in pink satin finished paper and bird’s-eye maple woodwork, and the kitchen was bilious as to woodwork, with bleak gray walls.  Could anything be more mistaken?

You can make the most commonplace rooms livable if you will paint all your woodwork cream, or gray, or sage green, and cover your walls with a paper of very much the same tone.  Real hard wood trim isn’t used in ordinary apartments, so why not do away with the badly-grained imitation and paint it?  You can look through thousands of samples of wall papers, and you will finally have to admit that there is nothing better for every day living than a deep cream, a misty gray, a tan or a buff paper.

You may have a certain license in the papering of your bedrooms, of course, but the living-rooms—­hall, dining-room, living-room, drawing-room, and so forth—­should be pulled together with walls of one color.  In no other way can you achieve an effect of spaciousness—­and spaciousness is the thing of all other things most desirable in the crowded city.  You must have a place where you can breathe and fling your arms about!

When you have it really ready for furnishing, get the essentials first; do with a bed and a chest of drawers and a table and a few chairs, and add things gradually, as the rooms call for them.

Make the best of the opportunities offered for built-in furniture before you buy another thing.  If you have a built-in china closet in your dining-room, you can plan a graceful built-in console-table to serve as a buffet or serving-table, and you will require only a good table—­not too heavily built—­and a few chairs for this room.  There is rarely a room that would not be improved by built-in shelves and inset mirrors.

Of course, I do not advise you to spend a lot of money on someone else’s property, but why not look the matter squarely in the face?  This is to be your home.  You will find a number of things that annoy you—­life in any city furnishes annoyances.  But if you have one or two reasonably large rooms, plenty of light and air, and respectable surroundings, make up your mind that you will not move every year.  That you will make a home of this place, and then go ahead and treat it as a home!  If a certain recess in the wall suggests bookshelves, don’t grudge the few dollars necessary to have the bookshelves built in!  You can probably have them built so that they can be removed, on that far day when this apartment is no longer your home, and if you have a dreadful wall paper don’t hide behind the silly plea that the landlord will not change it.  Go without a new gown, if necessary, and pay for the paper yourself.