Now, you often let yourselves do a stupid thing, or a forgetful thing, and then say, “Oh, I’m so sorry!” and feel as if you had wiped it out.  Not at all!  You have lost one chance of growing into a reliable woman.  In all your life you will only have a certain limited number of chances, and should use every one you have—­to be reliable is worth all the genius in the world for comfort to others, and you can each win this crown if you care to do so.

One other person I would choose if I were fated to have sisters, would be the one who purrs when she is pleased.  It takes all the colour and air out of life when people gaze impassively at beautiful things, or hear lovely things and never seem to have taken them in; or meet kindness and look as if it was not there.  You do not need to gush, but do purr!

And thirdly I want a magnanimous nature;—­one that takes slights and neglects in a large-minded way, and does not believe people meant them and, if they did, does not fret:  one who is serene when little things go wrong, and does not fuss or worry:  one who accepts generously as well as gives generously, and who is keenly alive to people’s good points and good intentions.  Little petty motives and small spites and jealousy die away in the light of a nature like that.  It keeps the family atmosphere sweet and wholesome.

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Now, my lessons are generally about the things that can be carried out at home, or else about the beliefs that underlie them.  You know that my ambition for you is that you should go out into the world and lead the ordinary small social life, but that you should live it in a great way and bring great beliefs to bear on it.

This is a special lesson—­the last of all to some of you—­the last in this year to all of you.

How long have you been at school, each of you?  How many times have we come together here, and thought over together, point after point, the things that really matter to us?

Week after week we are reminded by these talks to pull ourselves together, first in one way, then in another, and I do believe we have all tried.

Have the suggestions I made and the Resolutions we made, soaked into our lives and altered the stuff of which we are made?  That is the Responsibility for me who speak and for you who hear:  “To him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin.”

A Bible lesson written for you and dwelling on your special life and dangers is a more pointed reminder to you than a general sermon, and when you leave you will not get these reminders:  one is hardly ever spoken to religiously after being grown up.  It is no one’s business afterwards (as it is mine now) to speak to you.

Therefore I want you always to keep some religious book on hand that is likely to speak to you.  For instance, Bishop Wilkinson’s books speak, so do Dean Paget’s and Law’s “Serious Call,” and “Christian Perfection.”  Read a little of such a book every day, and a longer bit on Sunday.  If you only say your prayers and go to church, it is apt to become an outside thing; you want stirring up!