doubt whether the person is sick enough to receive the last Sacraments, do not be the judge yourself, send for the priest and let him judge; and then all the responsibility is removed from you in case the person should die without the Sacraments.  Very often persons are near death, and their relatives do not know it.  The priest, like the doctor, has experience in these cases, and can judge of the danger.  Again, do not foolishly believe, as some seem to do, that if the priest comes to anoint the sick person it will frighten him by making him think he is going to die.  It has never been known that the priest killed anyone by coming to see him; and if these same persons who are now sick receive the Sacraments in the church from the very same priest, why should they be afraid to receive them from him in their house?  And if they are so near death that a little fright would kill them, then they are surely sick enough to receive the Sacraments.  The sick person who is afraid that Extreme Unction will kill him or hasten his death shows that he has not the proper faith and confidence in God’s grace.  They who do not wish to receive Holy Communion or the Holy Viaticum in their houses do not want Our Lord to visit them.  How ungrateful they are!  When Our Lord was on earth the people carried the sick out into the streets to lay them near Him that He might cure them.  Now, He does not require us to do that, but comes Himself to the sick in the most humble manner, and they refuse to receive Him.  See how ungrateful, therefore, and how wanting in faith and devotion such persons are!  If the sick person is one who has been careless about his religion, and has for some time neglected to receive the Sacraments, do not wait for him to ask for the priest or for his consent to send for him.  Few persons ever believe they are so near death as they really are:  they are afraid to think of their past lives, and do not like to send for the priest, or at least they put off doing so, frequently till it is too late.  The devil tempts them to put off the reception of the Sacraments, in hopes that they may die without them, and be his forever.  In these cases speak to the sick man quietly and gently, and ask him if he would not like to have the priest come and say a few prayers for his recovery.  Do not say anything about the Sacraments if you are afraid he will refuse.  Simply bring the priest to the sick man, and he will attend to all the rest.  Even if the person should refuse—­if he has been baptized in the Catholic religion—­send for the priest and explain to him the circumstances and dispositions of the sick man.  It would be terrible to let such persons die without the Sacraments if there is any possibility of their receiving them.  Even when they refuse to see the priest it generally happens that after he has once visited them, talked to them, and explained the benefits of the Sacraments, they are better pleased than anyone else to see him coming again.