The difficulty is that we have little guidance; Christ’s sayings on the point being hard to reconcile with each other, and (the most of them) hard to accept.  But the truth of his teaching would seem to be this:  in our own person and fortune, we should be ready to accept and to pardon all; it is our cheek we are to turn, r coat that we are to give away to the man who has taken our cloak.  But when another’s face is buffeted, perhaps a little of the lion will become us best.  That we are to suffer others to be injured, and stand by, is not conceivable and surely not desirable.  Revenge, says Bacon, is a kind of wild justice; its judgments at least are delivered by an insane judge; and in our own quarrel we can see nothing truly and do nothing wisely.  But in the quarrel of our neighbour, let us be more bold.  One person’s happiness is as sacred as another’s; when we cannot defend both, let us defend one with a stout heart.  It is only in so far as we are doing this, that we have any right to interfere:  the defence of B is our only ground of action against A. A has as good a right to go to the devil, as we to go to glory; and neither knows what he does.

The truth is that all these interventions and denunciations and militant mongerings of moral half-truths, though they be sometimes needful, though they are often enjoyable, do yet belong to an inferior grade of duties.  Ill-temper and envy and revenge find here an arsenal of pious disguises; this is the playground of inverted lusts.  With a little more patience and a little less temper, a gentler and wiser method might be found in almost every case; and the knot that we cut by some fine heady quarrel-scene in private life, or, in public affairs, by some denunciatory act against what we are pleased to call our neighbour’s vices, might yet have been unwoven by the hand of sympathy.

IV

To look back upon the past year, and see how little we have striven and to what small purpose:  and how often we have been cowardly and hung back, or temerarious and rushed unwisely in; and how every day and all day long we have transgressed the law of kindness;—­it may seem a paradox, but in the bitterness of these discoveries, a certain consolation resides.  Life is not designed to minister to a man’s vanity.  He goes upon his long business most of the time with a hanging head, and all the time like a blind child.  Full of rewards and pleasures as it is—­so that to see the day break or the moon rise, or to meet a friend, or to hear the dinner-call when he is hungry, fills him with surprising joys—­this world is yet for him no abiding city.  Friendships fall through, health fails, weariness assails him; year after year, he must thumb the hardly varying record of his own weakness and folly.  It is a friendly process of detachment.  When the time comes that he should go, there need be few illusions left about himself. Here lies one who meant well, tried a