of sex and the processes of reproduction. If
nothing is said on such subjects, which in the nature
of things are bound to excite a lively interest and
curiosity in the minds of older children, evil results
are apt to follow. Because parents have never
mentioned these subjects to their child, they must
not conclude that he is ignorant of all knowledge
concerning them. It is not unlikely that the
question has often occupied his thoughts, and that
his speculations have led him to conclusions which
are, on the whole, true, although perhaps incorrect
in matters of detail. Most children, unable to
ask their mother or father direct questions upon matters
which they feel instinctively are taboo, have pieced
together, from their reading and observation, a faulty
theory of sexual life. The pursuit of such knowledge,
in secret, is not a healthy occupation for the child.
His parents’ silence has given him the feeling
that the unexplored land is forbidden ground.
In satisfying his curiosity he is most certainly fulfilling
an uncontrollable impulse, but he has been forced
to be secretive, and to look upon the information he
has acquired as a guilty secret. So far even
the best of children will go upon, the dangerous path.
If training has been good, and if the child has responded
well to it, he will go no further. Though he can
hardly be expected to refrain from constructing theories
and from testing them in the light of any chance information
which may come his way, he will instinctively feel
that the subject is one best left alone. He will
not talk of it with other boys—not even
with those who are older than himself and whose superior
knowledge in all other matters he is accustomed to
respect. We need not be surprised, however, that
the majority of children do not attain to this high
standard of conduct, and that the interest and excitement
of exploring the unknown and the forbidden proves
too great. Children will consult with each other
about such matters, and knowledge of evil may spread
rapidly from the older to the younger. In some
schools, as is well known, there may grow up with
deplorable facility an unhealthy interest in sexual
matters. On the surface of school life all may
seem fair enough, but beneath, hidden from all recognised
authority, lies much that is unspeakable. If
the boy has not been taught to have clean thoughts
upon matters which are essentially clean, if he has
not learned to know evil that he may avoid it, he
may not escape great harm. The fault in us which
kept him in ignorance will recoil upon our own heads.
He will maintain the barrier which was erected in the
first place by our own unhappy reticence, and we may
find it a hard task to penetrate behind it and prevent
his constant return to secret thoughts and imaginings
or secret habits and practices. Certain physiological
processes come to have for him an unclean flavour which
is yet perniciously attractive. He knows little
of the real meaning of sexual processes or of the
great purpose for which they are designed. It
is only that an unhealthy interest becomes attached
to all subjects which are scrupulously avoided in
general conversation. In secret he develops a
wrong attitude to all these matters.