child. Although by dearly bought experience they
learn wisdom in the management of their children,
they nevertheless may not study the subject with the
same care which they devote to matters of diet and
hygiene. It is the mother whose education and
understanding best fits her for this task. In
this country a separate nursery and a separate nursery
life for the children is found in nearly all households
among the well-to-do, and the care for the physical
needs of the children is largely taken off the mothers’
shoulders by nurses and nursemaids. That this
arrangement is advantageous on the whole cannot be
doubted. In America and on the Continent, where
the children often mingle all day in the general life
of the household, and occupy the ordinary living rooms,
experience shows that nerve strain and its attendant
evils are more common than with us. Nevertheless,
the arrangement of a separate nursery has its disadvantages.
Nurses are sometimes not sufficiently educated to
have much appreciation of the mental processes of
the child. If the children are restless and nervous
they are content to attribute this to naughtiness or
to constipation, or to some other physical ailment.
Their time is usually so fully occupied that they
cannot be expected to be very zealous in reading books
on the management of children. Nevertheless, in
practical matters of detail a good nurse will learn
rapidly from a mother who has given some attention
to the subject, and who is able to give explicit instructions
upon definite points.
It is right that mothers should appreciate the important
part which the environment plays in all the mental
processes of children, and in their physical condition
as well; that they should understand that good temper
and happiness mean a proper environment, and that constant
crying and fretfulness, broken sleep, refusal of food,
vomiting, undue thinness, and extreme timidity often
indicate that something in this direction is at fault.
Nevertheless, we must be careful not to overstate
our case. We must remember how great is the diversity
of temperament in children—a diversity
which is produced purely by hereditary factors.
The task of all mothers is by no means of equal difficulty.
There are children in whom quite gross faults in training
produce but little permanent damage; there are others
of so sensitive a nervous organisation that their
environment requires the most delicate adjustment,
and when matters have gone wrong, it may be very difficult
to restore health of mind and body. When a peculiarly
nervous temperament is inherited, wisdom in the management
of the child is essential, and may sometimes achieve
the happiest results. Heredity is so powerful
a factor in the development of the nervous organisation
of the child that, realising its importance, we should
be sparing in our criticism of the results which the
mothers who consult us achieve in the training of their
children. A sensitive, nervous organisation is