THE YOUNG GIRL’S COMPANION.

(BY MRS. PAYLEY.)

I.—­THE YOUNG GIRL’S DIARY.

My very dear young girls, those Arts and accomplishments which form part of the average education will be taught you by your Governess, and in some cases, if your parents think it judicious, by a male Professor.  I do not propose in these papers to deal with such subjects.  But there are certain points in the life of the young girl, about which the handbooks have but little to say, which your teachers do not include in their course of tuition.  Some of these points are particularly intimate and sentimental.  It is here that I would wish to act as your adviser, and, if I may, as your confidential friend.  I shall always be glad, while these papers are being published, to receive and answer any letters from young girls on questions of sentiment and propriety.  If we had no sentiment, life would not stand thinking about; if we had no propriety, life would not stand talking about.  Of the two, propriety is, perhaps, for the woman the more important, but I shall be glad to answer questions on both.  And now let me say a few words on the subject of the Young Girl’s Diary.

[Illustration:  (Young girl.)]

You must most certainly keep a Diary.

When I was a young girl of twenty-eight—­it is not so very long ago—­I had my Diary bound in pale blue watered silk; it had three locks and a little silver key which I wore on a riband round my neck.  I never took it off except to—­I mean for the purposes of the toilette.  There was a pocket at the end of the book, which would hold a faded flower or any little souvenir.  I always wrote it in solitude and by night.  Secresy has its ritual, and it is infinitely sweet and consoling.  If you should ever choose to read any passage from your Diary to the dearest of your girl-friends, the confidence becomes in consequence so much more confidential; for she will know that you are reading to her what was never intended for any human eye to see, and will enjoy it more.  If you have the least appreciation of what sentiment really means, if you feel that you are misunderstood, or if you suffer from the most sacred of all emotions, you will most certainly keep a Diary.

The entries in the Diary need not be of any great length.  I once had a dear girl-friend who, during the happy season of her first love, became in the pages of her Diary almost entirely interjectional.  I think this was from natural delicacy.  I was recently stopping at her house, and owing to circumstances over which she had no control, I am able to reproduce here the entries which she made in the few days which culminated in her engagement.

“September 6.—­Why?”

You observe that she is puzzled to account for her own emotions, and yet hesitates to give the inevitable solution.  The intense reticence of this entry seems to me peculiarly beautiful.

“September 7.—­I hate MARY BINDLER.”