“I have only wished to prevent you from hurrying us into wretchedness without any necessity,” said Rosamond, the tears coming again from a softened feeling now that her husband had softened.  “It is so very hard to be disgraced here among all the people we know, and to live in such a miserable way.  I wish I had died with the baby.”

She spoke and wept with that gentleness which makes such words and tears omnipotent over a loving-hearted man.  Lydgate drew his chair near to hers and pressed her delicate head against his cheek with his powerful tender hand.  He only caressed her; he did not say anything; for what was there to say?  He could not promise to shield her from the dreaded wretchedness, for he could see no sure means of doing so.  When he left her to go out again, he told himself that it was ten times harder for her than for him:  he had a life away from home, and constant appeals to his activity on behalf of others.  He wished to excuse everything in her if he could—­ but it was inevitable that in that excusing mood he should think of her as if she were an animal of another and feebler species.  Nevertheless she had mastered him.

CHAPTER LXVI.

“’Tis one thing to be tempted, Escalus,
Another thing to fall.” 
—­Measure for Measure.

Lydgate certainly had good reason to reflect on the service his practice did him in counteracting his personal cares.  He had no longer free energy enough for spontaneous research and speculative thinking, but by the bedside of patients, the direct external calls on his judgment and sympathies brought the added impulse needed to draw him out of himself.  It was not simply that beneficent harness of routine which enables silly men to live respectably and unhappy men to live calmly—­it was a perpetual claim on the immediate fresh application of thought, and on the consideration of another’s need and trial.  Many of us looking back through life would say that the kindest man we have ever known has been a medical man, or perhaps that surgeon whose fine tact, directed by deeply informed perception, has come to us in our need with a more sublime beneficence than that of miracle-workers.  Some of that twice-blessed mercy was always with Lydgate in his work at the Hospital or in private houses, serving better than any opiate to quiet and sustain him under his anxieties and his sense of mental degeneracy.

Mr. Farebrother’s suspicion as to the opiate was true, however.  Under the first galling pressure of foreseen difficulties, and the first perception that his marriage, if it were not to be a yoked loneliness, must be a state of effort to go on loving without too much care about being loved, he had once or twice tried a dose of opium.  But he had no hereditary constitutional craving after such transient escapes from the hauntings of misery.  He was strong, could drink a great deal of wine, but did not care