10) Whenever you are curious about the wonderful experience which we call “birth,” think of it reverently, and go at once for information to your father or mother; if you lack these, to some high-minded friend much older than you.  Otherwise, inclose a stamped envelope addressed to yourself in a letter to the Y.M.C.A. or the Y.W.C.A. or the Federal Bureau of Information, Washington, D.C., asking the title of the best book for a boy or a girl of your age, about the Beginnings of Life.

11) Never listen to explanations from the ignorant or the vulgar.  Impure thoughts on this subject lead to the ruin of both body and spirit.  Pure thoughts lead to the most precious possessions the world can give:  father, mother, sister, brother, friend, husband, wife, children, home, country.

12) Be dependable.  If any quality is most desirable, it is that of dependableness.  In school you have wonderful opportunities for cultivating it.

13) Every one of you should aim to become economically independent.  To that end, decide on a vocation and plan your studies accordingly.  If you wish to change later, very well; but always work towards a definite goal.

14) Avoid showing your displeasure with an acquaintance by not bowing.  To do so is crude.  A formal bow should be bestowed even on an enemy.  “Cut” an acquaintance only when you have reason to believe him an utterly unfit companion.

15) “Make up” at once with a friend.  “I’m sorry,” helps.  But in case this fails, find a way that succeeds.  Don’t lose your friend.

16) Be courteous, frank, and friendly.  Don’t try to be popular by attracting attention.  Popularity which has to be sought is of short duration.

HOME

    Such is the patriot’s boast, where’er we roam,—­
    His first, best country ever is at home.

    —­Goldsmith.

1) The finer you are, the more certain you will be to practice in your own home every courtesy which you know is due elsewhere.  If you are not polite and considerate in your home, you cannot help showing that fact away from home.

2) The spirit that aims at giving pleasure rather than annoyance or pain will not wish to take any “vacation.”  At first, the courteous thought and act may require conscious effort.  Persistent practice, however, crystallizes this conscious effort into confirmed habit; the result is, a lady, a gentleman.