A servant always answers “Yes, Madam,” or “Very good, sir,” never “Yes,” “No,” “All right,” or “Sure.”

Young people in the house are called “Miss Alice” or “Mr. Ollie,” possibly “Mr. Oliver,” but they are generally called by their familiar names with the prefix of Miss or Mister.  Younger children are called Miss Kittie and Master Fred, but never by the nurse, who calls them by their first names until they are grown—­sometimes always.

All cards and small packages are presented on a tray.

=TIME “OUT” AND “IN"=

No doubt in the far-off districts there are occasional young women who work long and hard and for little compensation, but at least in all cities, servants have their definite time out.  Furthermore, they are allowed in humanely run houses to have “times in” when they can be at home to friends who come to see them.  In every well-appointed house of size there is a sitting-room which is furnished with comfortable chairs and sofa if possible, a good droplight to read by, often books, and always magazines (sent out as soon as read by the family).  In other words, they have an inviting room to use as their own exactly as though they were living at home.  If no room is available, the kitchen has a cover put on the table, a droplight, and a few restful chairs are provided.

=THE MAIDS’ MEN FRIENDS=

Are maids allowed to receive men friends?  Certainly they are!  Whoever in remote ages thought it was better to forbid “followers” the house, and have Mary and Selma slip out of doors to meet them in the dark, had very distorted notions to say the least.  And any lady who knows so little of human nature as to make the same rule for her maids to-day is acting in ignorant blindness of her own duties to those who are not only in her employ but also under her protection.

A pretty young woman whose men friends come in occasionally and play cards with the others, or dance to a small and not loud phonograph in the kitchen, is merely being treated humanly.  Because she wears a uniform makes her no less a young girl, with a young girl’s love of amusement, which if not properly provided for her “at home” will be sought for in sinister places.

This responsibility is one that many ladies who are occupied with charitable and good works elsewhere often overlook under their own roof.  It does not mean that the kitchen should be a scene of perpetual revelry and mirth that can by any chance disturb the quiet of the neighborhood or even the family.  Unseemly noise is checked at once, much as it would be if young people in the drawing-room became disturbing.  Continuous company is not suitable either, and those who abuse privileges naturally must have them curtailed, but the really high-class servant who does not appreciate kindness and requite it with considerate and proper behavior is rare.

=SERVICE IN FORMAL ENTERTAINING=

=ON THE SIDEWALK AND IN THE HALL=