Your devoted
Pat.

To an Acquaintance

After a visit to a formal acquaintance or when some one has shown you especial hospitality in a city where you are a stranger: 

My dear Mrs. Duluth: 

It was more than good of you to give my husband and me so much
pleasure.  We enjoyed, and appreciated, all your kindness to us
more than we can say.

We hope that you and Mr. Duluth may be coming East before long
and that we may then have the pleasure of seeing you at
Strandholm.

In the meanwhile, thanking you for your generous hospitality, and
with kindest regards to you both, in which my husband joins,
believe me,

Very sincerely yours,
Katherine de Puyster Eminent.

=AN ENGRAVED CARD OF THANKS=

An engraved card of thanks is proper only when sent by a public official to acknowledge the overwhelming number of congratulatory messages he must inevitably receive from strangers, when he has carried an election or otherwise been honored with the confidence of his State or country.  A recent and excellent example follows: 

=EXECUTIVE MANSION=

My dear....

=I warmly appreciate your kind message of congratulation which has given me a great deal of pleasure, and sincerely wish that it were possible for me to acknowledge it in a less formal manner.=

=Faithfully,=

(signed by hand)

An engraved form of thanks for sympathy, also from
one in public life, is presented in the following example: 

Mr. John Smith
wishes to express his deep gratitude
and to thank you
for your kind expression of sympathy

But remember:  an engraved card sent by a private individual to a personal friend, is not “stylish” or smart, but rude. (See also engraved acknowledgment of sympathy, pages 406-7.)

=THE LETTER OF INTRODUCTION=

A letter of business introduction can be much more freely given than a letter of social introduction.  For the former it is necessary merely that the persons introduced have business interests in common—­which are much more easily determined than social compatibility, which is the requisite necessary for the latter.  It is, of course, proper to give your personal representative a letter of introduction to whomever you send him.

On the subject of letters of social introduction there is one chief rule: 

Never ask for letters of introduction, and be very sparing in your offers to write or accept them.

Seemingly few persons realize that a letter of social introduction is actually a draft for payment on demand.  The form might as well be:  “The bearer of this has (because of it) the right to demand your interest, your time, your hospitality—­liberally and at once, no matter what your inclination may be.”

Therefore, it is far better to refuse in the beginning, than to hedge and end by committing the greater error of unwarrantedly inconveniencing a valued friend or acquaintance.