The Living Present eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 268 pages of information about The Living Present.
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The Living Present eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 268 pages of information about The Living Present.

I use the word abrupt, because in spite of the scattered instances of female prosiliency throughout history, and the long struggle beginning in the last century for the vote, or the individual determination to strive for some more distinguished fashion of coping with poverty than school-teaching or boarding-house keeping, the concerted awakening of the sex was almost as abrupt as the European War.  Like many fires it smouldered long, and then burst into a menacing conflagration.  But I do not for a moment apprehend that the conflagration will extinguish the complete glory of the male any more than it will cause a revulsion of nature in the born mother.

But may there not be a shuffling of the cards?  Take the question of servant-girls for instance.  Where there are two or more servants in a family their lot is far better than that of the factory girl.  But it is quite a different matter with the maid-of-all-work, the household drudge, who is increasingly hard to find, partly because she, quite naturally, prefers the department store, or the factory, with its definite hours and better social status, partly because there is nothing in the “home” to offset her terrible loneliness but interminable hours of work.  In England, where many people live in lodgings, fashionable and otherwise, and have all meals served in their rooms, it is a painful sight to see a slavey toiling up two or three flights of stairs—­and four times a day.  In the United States, the girls who come over from Scandinavia or Germany with roseate hopes soon lose their fresh color and look heavy and sullen if they find their level in the household where economy reigns.

Now, why has no one ever thought of men as “maids” of all work?  On ocean liners it is the stewards that take care of the state-rooms, and they keep them like wax, and make the best bed known to civilization.  The stewardesses in heavy weather attend to the prostrate of their sex, but otherwise do nothing but bring the morning tea, hook up, and receive tips.  Men wait in the diningroom (as they do in all first-class hotels), and look out for the passengers on deck.  Not the most militant suffragette but would be intensely annoyed to have stewardesses scurrying about on a heaving deck with the morning broth and rugs, or dancing attendance in a nauseous sea.

The truth of the matter is that there is a vast number of men of all races who are fit to be nothing but servants, and are so misplaced in other positions where habit or vanity has put them, that they fail far more constantly than women.  All “men” are not real men by any means.  They are not fitted to play a man’s part in life, and many of the things they attempt are far better done by strong determined women, who have had the necessary advantages, and the character to ignore the handicap of sex.

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