The Nervous Housewife eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Nervous Housewife.

The Nervous Housewife eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Nervous Housewife.

Let me say one more word about social service and the social worker, though I feel that a volume of praise would be more fitting.  The social worker has become an indispensable part of the hospital organization, an investigator to bring in facts, a social adjuster to bring about cure.  For a hospital to be without a social service department is to confess itself behind the times and inefficient.

Briefly, this is what was done for this family.

Their prejudices against social aid were removed by emphasizing that they were not recipients of charity.  The husband was allowed to pay, or arrange to pay, for a six weeks’ stay in the country for the mother and the new baby.  The home for this purpose was found by the agency and was that of a kindly elderly couple who took the woman into their hearts as well as over their threshold.  The social worker arranged with a nursing organization to send a worker to the man’s house each day to clean up the home while the children stayed in a nursery.  One way or another the husband and children were made comfortable, and the wife came back from her stay, made over, eager to get back to her work.

It is obvious that in such a case as this the physician is largely diagnostician and director, the actual treatment consisting in getting a selfish and inert social system to help out one of its victims.  That a sick man should be left to sink or swim, though he has previously been industrious and a good member of society, is injustice and social inefficiency.  That a woman, under such circumstances, should be left with the entire burden on her hands is part of the stupidity and cruelty of society.

How avert such a thing?  For one thing do away with the name “Charity” in relief work,—­and find some system by which industry will adequately care for its victims.  What system will do that?  I fear it may be called socialistic to suggest that some of the fifteen billions spent last year on luxuries might better be shifted to social amelioration.  The record in automobile production would be more pleasing if it did not mean a shift from real social wealth to individual luxury.

Case II.  The over-rich, purposeless woman.

This type is of course the direct opposite of the woman in Case I and represents the kind of woman usually held up as most commonly afflicted with “nervousness.”  “If she really had something to do,” say the critics, “she would not be nervous.”

This is fundamentally true of her, though not true of the majority of women whom we have discussed.  It seems difficult to believe that hard work and worry may bring the same results as idleness and dissatisfaction, but it is true that both deenergize the organism, the body and mind, and so are kindred evils.  What’s the matter with the poor is their poverty, while the matter with the rich is their wealth.

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