The Nervous Housewife eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Nervous Housewife.

The Nervous Housewife eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 179 pages of information about The Nervous Housewife.

There are deenergizing emotions and experiences as well, things that suddenly rob the victim of strength and purpose.  Fear of a certain type is one of these things, as when one’s knees knock together, the limbs become as it were without the control of the will, the heart flutters, and the voice is hoarse and weak.  Fear of sickness, fear of death, either for one’s self or some beloved one, may completely deenergize the strongest man.  Then there is hope deferred, and disappointment, the frustration of desire and purpose, helplessness before insult and injustice, blame merited or unmerited, the feeling of failure and inevitable disaster.  There is the unhappy life situation,—­the mistaken marriage, the disillusionment of betrayed love, the dashing of parental pride.  The profoundest deenergization of life may come from a failure of interest in one’s work, a boredom due to monotony, a dropping out of enthusiasm from the mere failure of new stimuli, as occurs with loneliness.  Any or all of these factors may bring about a neurasthenic, deenergized state with lowering of the functions of mind and body.  We shall discover how this comes about farther on.

What part does a subconscious personality take in all this and in further symptoms?  Is there a subconsciousness, and what is it?

In answer, the majority of modern psychologists and psychopathologists affirm the existence of a subconscious personality.  One needs only mention James, Janet, Ribot, McDougall, Freud, Prince, out of a host of writers.  Whether they are right or not, or whether we now deal with a new fashion in mental science, this can be affirmed—­that every human being is a pot boiling with desires, passions, lusts, wishes, purposes, ideas, and emotions, some of which he clearly recognizes and clearly admits, and some of which he does not clearly recognize and which he would deny.

These desires, passions, purposes, etc., are not in harmony one with another; they are often irreconcilable and one has to be smothered for the sake of the other.  Thus a sex feeling that is not legitimate, an illicit forbidden love has to be conquered for the sake of the purpose to be religious or good, or the desire to be respected.  So one may struggle against a hatred for a person whom one should love,—­a husband, a wife, an invalid parent, or child whose care is a burden, and one refuses to recognize that there is such a struggle.  So one may seek to suppress jealousy, envy of the nearest and dearest; soul-stirring, forbidden passions; secret revolt against morality and law which may (and often do) rage in the most puritanical breast.

In the theory of the subconscious these undesired thoughts, feelings, passions, wishes, are repressed and pushed into the innermost recesses of the being, out of the light of the conscious personality, but nevertheless acting on the personality, distorting it, wearying it.

However this may be, there is struggle, conflict in every human breast and especially difficult and undecided struggles in the case of the neurasthenic.  Literally, secretly or otherwise, he is a house divided against himself, deenergized by fear, disgust, revolt, and conflict.

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