father were old pals: they used to go poaching
together; but the parent of Lord O. was so clever
as to open a shop, where he sold what his friend poached.
The shop began it you see. The way up is known
to everybody. But there is another way which
we seldom regard; it is the way down again. The
Family Rise is the commonest phenomenon. Is not
the name Legion of those of whom men say, partly with
the pride of connecting themselves with greatness,
partly with the natural desire, which small men always
show, to tear away something of that greatness, ’Why,
I knew him when his father had a shop!’ The
Family Fall is less conspicuous. Yet there are
always as many going down as climbing up. You
cannot, in fact, stay still. You must either climb
or slip down—unless, indeed, you have got
your leg over the topmost rung, which means the stability
of an hereditary title and landed property. We
all ought to have hereditary titles and landed property,
in order to insure national prosperity for ever.
Novelists do not, as a rule, treat of the Sinking
Back because it is a depressing subject. There
are many ways of falling. Mostly, the father makes
an ass of himself in the way of business or speculation;
or he dies too soon; or his sons possess none of their
father’s ability; or they take to drink.
Anyhow, down goes the Family, at first slowly, but
with ever increasing rapidity, back to its original
level. There is no country in the world—certainly
not the United States—where a young man
may rise to distinction with greater ease than this
realm of the Three Kingdoms. There is also none
where the families show a greater alacrity in sinking.
But the most reluctant to go down, those who cling
most tightly to the social level which they think they
have reached, are the daughters; so that when misfortunes
fall upon them they are ready to deny themselves everything
rather than lose the social dignity which they think
belongs to them.
Again, a steady feeder of these ranks is the large
family of girls. It is astonishing what a number
of families there are in which they are all, or nearly
all, girls. The father is, perhaps, a professional
man of some kind, whose blamelessness has not brought
him solid success, so that there is always tightness.
And it is beautiful to remark the cheerfulness of
the girls, and how they accept the tightness as a
necessary part of the World’s Order; and how
they welcome each new feminine arrival as if it was
really going to add a solid lump of comfort to the
family joy. These girls face work from the beginning.
Well for them if they have any better training than
the ordinary day-school, or any special teaching at
all.