last book of the Emilius, which treats of the education
of girls, education is reduced within the compass
of an even narrower ideal than this. We are confronted
with the oriental conception of women. Every principle
that has been followed in the education of Emilius
is reversed in the education of women. Opinion,
which is the tomb of virtue among men, is among women
its high throne. The whole education of women
ought to be relative to men; to please them, to be
useful to them, to make themselves loved and honoured
by them, to console them, to render their lives agreeable
and sweet to them,—these are the duties
which ought to be taught to women from their childhood.
Every girl ought to have the religion of her mother,
and every wife that of her husband. Not being
in a condition to judge for themselves, they ought
to receive the decision of fathers and husbands as
if it were that of the church. And since authority
is the rule of faith for women, it is not so much
a matter of explaining to them the reasons for belief,
as for expounding clearly to them what to believe.
Although boys are not to hear of the idea of God until
they are fifteen, because they are not in a condition
to apprehend it, yet girls who are still less in a
condition to apprehend it, are
therefore to
have it imparted to them at an earlier age. Woman
is created to give way to man, and to suffer his injustice.
Her empire is an empire of gentleness, mildness, and
complaisance. Her orders are caresses, and her
threats are tears. Girls must not only be made
laborious and vigilant; they must also very early
be accustomed to being thwarted and kept in restraint.
This misfortune, if they feel it one, is inseparable
from their sex, and if ever they attempt to escape
from it, they will only suffer misfortunes still more
cruel in consequence.[318]
After a series of oriental and obscurantist propositions
of this kind, it is of little purpose to tell us that
women have more intelligence and men more genius;
that women observe, while men reason; that men will
philosophise better upon the human heart, while women
will be more skilful in reading it.[319] And it is
a mere mockery to end the matter by a fervid assurance,
that in spite of prejudices that have their origin
in the manners of the time, the enthusiasm for what
is worthy and noble is no more foreign to women than
it is to men, and that there is nothing which under
the guidance of nature may not be obtained from them
as well as from ourselves.[320] Finally there is a
complete surrender of the obscurantist position in
such a sentence as this: “I only know for
either sex two really distinct classes; one the people
who think, the other the people who do not think, and
this difference comes almost entirely from education.
A man of the first of these classes ought not to marry
into the other; for the greatest charm of companionship
is wanting, when in spite of having a wife he is reduced
to think by himself. It is only a cultivated spirit