a character reap a destiny both in this world and
in that which is eternal. It is mere selfishness,
unconscious, no doubt, but none the less fatal, when
parents to suit their own convenience omit to inculcate
obedience, self-restraint, habits of order and unselfishness
in their children. Youth is the time when the
soul is apt to be shaken by sorrow’s power and
when stormy passions rage. The tiny rill starting
from the mountainside can be readily deflected east
or west, but the majestic river hastening to the sea
is beyond all such arbitrary directions. So it
is with the human being: the character and habit
are directed easily in infancy, with difficulty during
childhood, but they are well-nigh impossible of direction
by the time adolescence is established. Those
fathers and mothers who desire to have happiness and
peace in connection with their adolescent boys and
girls must take the trouble to direct them aright during
the plastic years of infancy and childhood. All
natural instincts implanted in us by Him who knew
what was in the heart of man are in themselves right
and good, but the exercise of these instincts may be
entirely wrong in time or in degree. The sexual
instinct, the affinity of boy to girl, the love of
adult man and woman, are right and holy when exercised
aright, and it is the result of “spoiling”
when these good and noble instincts are wrongly exercised.
All who love their country, all who love their fellow
men, and all who desire that the kingdom of God should
come, must surely do everything that is in their power
to awaken the fathers and mothers of the land to a
sense of their heavy responsibility and of their high
privilege. In this we are entirely separated
from and higher than the rest of the animal creation,
in that on us lies the duty not only of calling into
life a new generation of human beings, but also the
still higher duty, the still greater privilege and
the wider responsibility of bringing up those children
to be themselves the worthy parents of the future,
the supporters of their country’s dignity, and
joyful citizens of the household of God.
Another characteristic of adolescence is to be found
in gregariousness, or what has been sometimes called
the gang spirit. Boys, and to almost as
great a degree girls, form themselves into companies
or gangs, which frequently possess a high degree of
organisation. They elaborate special languages,
they have their own form of shorthand, their passwords,
their rites and ceremonies. The gang has its
elected leader, its officers, its members; and although
it is liable to sudden disruption and seldom outlasts
a few terms of school-life, each succeeding club or
company is for the time being of paramount importance
in the estimation of its members. The gang spirit
may at times cause trouble and lead to anxiety, but
if rightly directed it may be turned to good account.
It is the germ of the future capacity to organise
men and women into corporate life—the very
method by which much public and national work is readily
accomplished, but which is impossible to accomplish
by individual effort.