those monsters of conversation, who are grave or gay
above their years. He never converses but with
followers of nature and good sense, where all that
is uttered is only the effect of a communicable temper,
and not of emulation to excel their companions; all
desire of superiority being a contradiction to that
spirit which makes a just conversation, the very essence
of which is mutual goodwill. Hence it is, that
I take it for a rule, that the natural, and not the
acquired man, is the companion. Learning, wit,
gallantry, and good breeding, are all but subordinate
qualities in society, and are of no value, but as they
are subservient to benevolence, and tend to a certain
manner of being or appearing equal to the rest of
the company; for conversation is composed of an assembly
of men, as they are men, and not as they are distinguished
by fortune: therefore he that brings his quality
with him into conversation, should always pay the
reckoning; for he came to receive homage, and not to
meet his friends—But the din about my ears
from the clamour of the people I was with this evening,
has carried me beyond my intended purpose, which was
to explain upon the Order of Merry Fellows; but I think
I may pronounce of them, as I heard good Senecio,
with a spice of wit of the last age, say,
viz.
that a Merry Fellow is the Saddest Fellow in the world.
[Footnote 437: See No. 44. Blackall was
a bishop; and the University of Oxford had declared
publicly in his favour.]
[Footnote 438: See No. 11.]
[Footnote 439: A meeting for conferring degrees,
when speeches, &c., are delivered.]
[Footnote 440: An undergraduate who made extempore
speeches at the Act, often of a very satirical kind.
Sometimes there were two terrae filii, who
carried on a dialogue. In 1721, Amberst published
a periodical with the title “Terrae-Filius:
or, The Secret History of the University of Oxford,”
and these papers were reprinted in two volumes in 1726,
with a curious engraving of the Theatre at Oxford,
by Hogarth, as frontispiece.]
[Footnote 441: See No. 26.]
[Footnote 442: In an Essay “Of Heroic Plays,”
prefixed to his play, “Almanzor and Almahide;
or, The Conquest of Granada,” Dryden defended
at length the character of Almanzor.]
[Footnote 443: This village is the scene of Dr.
William King’s play, “Joan of Hedington”
("Works,” 1776, vol. iii. p. 16).]
No. 46. [STEELE.
From Saturday, July 23, to Tuesday, July
26, 1709.
Non bene conveniunt, nec in una
sede morantur,
Majestas et amor.
OVID,
Met. ii. 846.
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White’s Chocolate-house, July 25.