Among Primitive Peoples—Sexual Initiation in Africa and Elsewhere—The
Tendency to Spontaneous Development of the Art of Love in Early
Life—Flirtation—Sexual Ignorance in Women—The Husband’s Place in Sexual
Initiation—Sexual Ignorance in Men—The Husband’s Education for
Marriage—The Injury Done by the Ignorance of Husbands—The Physical and
Mental Results of Unskilful Coitus—Women Understand the Art of Love
Better Than Men—Ancient and Modern Opinions Concerning Frequency of
Coitus—Variation in Sexual Capacity—The Sexual Appetite—The Art of Love
Based on the Biological Facts of Courtship—The Art of Pleasing Women—The
Lover Compared to the Musician—The Proposal as a Part of
Courtship—Divination in the Art of Love—The Importance of the
Preliminaries in Courtship—The Unskilful Husband Frequently the Cause of
the Frigid Wife—The Difficulty of Courtship—Simultaneous Orgasm—The
Evils of Incomplete Gratification in Women—Coitus Interruptus—Coitus
Reservatus—The Human Method of Coitus—Variations in Coitus—Posture in
Coitus—The Best Time for Coitus—The Influence of Coitus in Marriage—The
Advantages of Absence in Marriage—The Risks of Absence—Jealousy—The
Primitive Function of Jealousy—Its Predominance Among Animals, Savages,
etc, and in Pathological States—An Anti-Social Emotion—Jealousy
Incompatible With the Progress of Civilization—The Possibility of Loving
More Than One Person at a Time—Platonic Friendship—The Conditions Which
Make It Possible—The Maternal Element in Woman’s Love—The Final
Development of Conjugal Love—The Problem of Love One of the Greatest Of
Social Questions.
CHAPTER XII.
The science of procreation.
The Relationship of the Science of Procreation to the Art of Love—Sexual Desire and Sexual Pleasure as the Conditions of Conception—Reproduction Formerly Left to Caprice and Lust—The Question of Procreation as a Religious Question—The Creed of Eugenics—Ellen Key and Sir Francis Galton—Our Debt to Posterity—The Problem of Replacing Natural Selection—The Origin and Development of Eugenics—The General Acceptance of Eugenical Principles To-day—The Two Channels by Which Eugenical Principles are Becoming Embodied in Practice—The Sense of Sexual Responsibility in Women—The Rejection of Compulsory Motherhood—The Privilege of Voluntary Motherhood—Causes of the Degradation of Motherhood—The Control of Conception—Now Practiced by the Majority of the Population in Civilized Countries—The Fallacy of “Racial Suicide”—Are Large Families a Stigma of Degeneration?—Procreative Control the Outcome of Natural and Civilized Progress—The Growth of Neo-Malthusian Beliefs and Practices—Facultative Sterility as Distinct from Neo-Malthusianism—The