out of sight and to garble others, has perhaps,
with any one set of children, succeeded in preventing
or stifling this kind of curiosity. No part
of the history of human thought would perhaps be
more singular than the stratagems devised by young
people in different situations to make themselves
masters or witnesses of the secret. And every
discovery, due to their own inquiries, can but
be so much oil poured upon an imagination in flames”
(T. Beddoes, Hygeia, 1802, vol. iii,
p. 59). Kaan, again, in one of the earliest
books on morbid sexuality, sets down mystery as one
of the causes of psychopathia sexualis.
Marro (La Puberta, p. 299) points out how
the veil of mystery thrown over sexual matters
merely serves to concentrate attention on them.
The distinguished Dutch writer Multatuli, in one
of his letters (quoted with approval by Freud),
remarks on the dangers of hiding things from boys
and girls in a veil of mystery, pointing out that
this must only heighten the curiosity of children,
and so far from keeping them pure, which mere
ignorance can never do, heats and perverts their
imaginations. Mrs. Mary Wood Allen, also,
warns the mother (op. cit., p. 5) against the danger
of allowing any air of embarrassing mystery to
creep over these things. “If the instructor
feels any embarrassment in answering the queries
of the child, he is not fitted to be the teacher, for
the feeling of embarrassment will, in some subtle
way, communicate itself to the child, and he will
experience an indefinable sense of offended delicacy
which is both unnecessary and undesirable.
Purification of one’s own thought is, then, the
first step towards teaching the truth purely.
Why,” she adds, “is death, the gateway
out of life, any more dignified or pathetic than
birth, the gateway into life? Or why is the taking
of earthly life a more awful fact than the giving
of life?” Mrs. Ennis Richmond, in a book
of advice to mothers which contains many wise
and true things, says: “I want to insist,
more strongly than upon anything else, that it
is the secrecy that surrounds certain parts
of the body and their functions that gives them their
danger in the child’s thought. Little children,
from earliest years, are taught to think of these
parts of their body as mysterious, and not only
so, but that they are mysterious because they
are unclean. Children have not even a name for
them. If you have to speak to your child,
you allude to them mysteriously and in a half-whisper
as ’that little part of you that you don’t
speak of,’ or words to that effect. Before
everything it is important that your child should
have a good working name for these parts of his
body, and for their functions, and that he should
be taught to use and to hear the names, and that
as naturally and openly as though he or you were speaking
of his head or his foot. Convention has, for various
reasons, made it impossible to speak in this way
in public. But you can, at any rate, break