developed receptive faculty. The American
woman, this writer states, in discovering her own
individuality has not yet learnt how to manage
it; it is still “largely a useless, uneasy
factor, vouchsafing her very little more peace
than it does those in her immediate surcharged vicinity.”
Her circumstances tend to make of her “a curious
anomalous hybrid; a cross between a magnificent,
rather unmannerly boy, and a spoiled, exacting
demi-mondaine, who sincerely loves in this
world herself alone.” She has not yet learnt
that woman’s supreme work in the world can only
be attained through the voluntary acceptance of
the restraints of marriage. The same writer
points out that the fault is not alone with American
women, but also with American men. Their idolatry
of their women is largely responsible for that
intolerance and selfishness which causes so many
divorces; “American women are, as a whole,
pampered and worshipped out of all reason.”
But the men, who lend themselves to this, do not
feel that they can treat their wives with the
same comradeship as the French treat their wives,
nor seek their advice with the same reliance; the American
woman is placed on an unreal pedestal. Yet
another American writer, Rafford Pyke ("Husbands
and Wives,” Cosmopolitan, 1902),
points out that only a small proportion of American
marriages are really unhappy, these being chiefly
among the more cultured classes, in which the
movement of expansion in women’s interests
and lives is taking place; it is more often the wife
than the husband who is disappointed in marriage,
and this is largely due to her inability to merge,
not necessarily subordinate, her individuality
in an equal union with his. “Marriage
to-day is becoming more and more dependent for its
success upon the adjustment of conditions that
are psychical. Whereas in former generations
it was sufficient that the union should involve
physical reciprocity, in this age of ours the union
must involve a psychic reciprocity as well. And
whereas, heretofore, the community of interest
was attained with ease, it is now becoming far
more difficult because of the tendency to discourage
a woman who marries from merging her separate individuality
in her husband’s. Yet, unless she does this,
how can she have a complete and perfect interest
in the life together, and, for that matter, how
can he have such an interest either?”
Professor Muensterberg, the distinguished psychologist, in his frank but appreciative study of American institutions, The Americans, taking a broader outlook, points out that the influence of women on morals in America has not been in every respect satisfactory, in so far as it has tended to encourage shallowness and superficiality. “The American woman who has scarcely a shred of education,” he remarks (p. 587), “looks in vain for any subject on which she has not firm convictions already at hand.... The arrogance of this feminine lack of knowledge is the symptom