is implied in the term ‘immorality.’
Out of courtesy to you, they may assent to what
you say, but they do not comprehend your meaning
when you talk of virtue or purity; you are simply
talking over their heads” (Merrick, op. cit.,
p. 28). The same attitude may be found among
prostitutes everywhere. In Italy Ferriani
mentions a girl of fifteen who, when accused of indecency
with a man in a public garden, denied with tears and
much indignation. He finally induced her to
confess, and then asked her: “Why did
you try to make me believe you were a good girl?”
She hesitated, smiled, and said: “Because
they say girls ought not to do what I do,
but ought to work. But I am what I am, and
it is no concern of theirs.” This attitude
is often more than an instinctive feeling; in
intelligent prostitutes it frequently becomes
a reasoned conviction. “I can bear everything,
if so it must be,” wrote the author of the
Tagebuch einer Verlorenen (p. 291), “even
serious and honorable contempt, but I cannot bear
scorn. Contempt—yes, if it is justified.
If a poor and pretty girl with sick and bitter
heart stands alone in life, cast off, with temptations
and seductions offering on every side, and, in spite
of that, out of inner conviction she chooses the grey
and monotonous path of renunciation and middle-class
morality, I recognize in that girl a personality,
who has a certain justification in looking down
with contemptuous pity on weaker girls. But
those geese who, under the eyes of their shepherds
and life-long owners, have always been pastured
in smooth green fields, have certainly no right
to laugh scornfully at others who have not been
so fortunate.” Nor must it be supposed that
there is necessarily any sophistry in the prostitute’s
justification of herself. Some of our best
thinkers and observers have reached a conclusion
that is not dissimilar. “The actual conditions
of society are opposed to any high moral feeling
in women,” Marro observes (
La Puberta,
p. 462), “for between those who sell themselves
to prostitution and those who sell themselves to marriage,
the only difference is in price and duration of the
contract.”
We have already seen how very large a part in prostitution
is furnished by those who have left domestic service
to adopt this life (ante p. 264). It is
not difficult to find in this fact evidence of the
kind of impulse which impels a woman to adopt the
career of prostitution. “The servant, in
our society of equality,” wrote Goncourt, recalling
somewhat earlier days when she was often admitted
to a place in the family life, “has become nothing
but a paid pariah, a machine for doing household work,
and is no longer allowed to share the employer’s
human life."[205] And in England, even half a century
ago, we already find the same statements concerning
the servant’s position: “domestic
service is a complete slavery,” with early hours
and late hours, and constant running up and down stairs
till her legs are swollen; “an amount of ingenuity