At this point, indeed, we reach the most fundamental
criticism to which the conception of “sexual
abstinence” lies open. Rohleder, an experienced
physician and a recognized authority on questions
of sexual pathology, has submitted the current views
on “sexual abstinence” to a searching criticism
in a lengthy and important paper.[95] He denies altogether
that strict sexual abstinence exists at all.
“Sexual abstinence,” he points out, in
any strict scenes of the term, must involve abstinence
not merely from sexual intercourse but from auto-erotic
manifestations, from masturbation, from homosexual
acts, from all sexually perverse practices. It
must further involve a permanent abstention from indulgence
in erotic imaginations and voluptuous reverie.
When, however, it is possible thus to render the whole
psychic field a tabula rasa so far as sexual
activity is concerned—and if it fails to
be so constantly and consistently there is no strict
sexual abstinence—then, Rohleder points
out, we have to consider whether we are not in presence
of a case of sexual anaesthesia, of anaphrodisia
sexualis. That is a question which is rarely,
if ever, faced by those who discuss sexual abstinence.
It is, however, an extremely pertinent question, because,
as Rohleder insists, if sexual anaesthesia exists the
question of sexual abstinence falls to the ground,
for we can only “abstain” from actions
that are in our power. Complete sexual anaesthesia
is, however, so rare a state that it may be practically
left out of consideration, and as the sexual impulse,
if it exists, must by physiological necessity sometimes
become active in some shape—even if only,
according to Freud’s view, by transformation
into some morbid neurotic condition—we
reach the conclusion that “sexual abstinence”
is strictly impossible. Rohleder has met with
a few cases in which there seemed to him no escape
from the conclusion that sexual abstinence existed,
but in all of these he subsequently found that he was
mistaken, usually owing to the practice of masturbation,
which he believes to be extremely common and very
frequently accompanied by a persistent attempt to
deceive the physician concerning its existence.
The only kind of “sexual abstinence” that
exists is a partial and temporary abstinence.
Instead of saying, as some say, “Permanent abstinence
is unnatural and cannot exist without physical and
mental injury,” we ought to say, Rohleder believes,
“Permanent abstinence is unnatural and has never
existed.”
It is impossible not to feel as we contemplate this chaotic mass of opinions, that the whole discussion is revolving round a purely negative idea, and that fundamental fact is responsible for what at first seem to be startling conflicts of statement. If indeed we were to eliminate what is commonly regarded as the religious and moral aspect of the matter—an aspect, be it remembered, which has no bearing on the essential natural facts of the question—we cannot fail to perceive that these ostentatious differences of conviction would be reduced within very narrow and trifling limits.