Even in Europe it is probably a comparatively modern
discovery; and in all the Celtic tongues, Rhys states,
there is no word for “kiss,” the word
employed being always borrowed from the Latin
pax.[202]
At a fairly early historic period, however, the Welsh
Cymri, at all events, acquired a knowledge of the
kiss, but it was regarded as a serious matter and
very sparingly used, being by law only permitted on
special occasions, as at a game called rope-playing
or a carousal; otherwise a wife who kissed a man not
her husband could be repudiated. Throughout eastern
Asia it is unknown; thus, in Japanese literature kisses
and embraces have no existence. “Kisses,
and embraces are simply unknown in Japan as tokens
of affection,” Lafcadio Hearn states, “if
we except the solitary fact that Japanese mothers,
like mothers all over the world, lip and hug their
little ones betimes. After babyhood there is no
more hugging or kisses; such actions, except in the
case of infants, are held to be immodest. Never
do girls kiss one another; never do parents kiss or
embrace their children who have become able to walk.”
This holds true, and has always held true, of all
classes; hand-clasping is also foreign to them.
On meeting after a long absence, Hearn remarks, they
smile, perhaps cry a little, they may even stroke
each other, but that is all. Japanese affection
“is chiefly shown in acts of exquisite courtesy
and kindness."[203] Among nearly all of the black
races of Africa lovers never kiss nor do mothers usually
kiss their babies.[204] Among the American Indians
the tactile kiss is, for the most part, unknown, though
here and there, as among the Fuegians, lovers rub
their cheeks together.[205] Kissing is unknown to
the Malays. In North Queensland, however, Roth
states, kissing takes place between mothers (not fathers)
and infants, also between husbands and wives; but
whether it is an introduced custom Roth is unable
to say; he adds that the Pitta-pitta language possesses
a word for kissing.[206]
It must be remarked, however, that in many parts of
the world where the tactile kiss, as we understand
it, is usually said to be unknown, it still exists
as between a mother and her baby, and this seems to
support the view advocated by Lombroso that the lovers’
kiss is developed from the maternal kiss. Thus,
the Angoni Zulus to the north of the Zambesi, Wiese
states, kiss their small children on both cheeks[207]
and among the Fuegians, according to Hyades, mothers
kiss their small children.
Even in Europe the kiss in early mediaeval days was,
it seems probable, not widely known as an expression
of sexual love; it would appear to have been a refinement
of love only practiced by the more cultivated classes.
In the old ballad of Glasgerion the lady suspected
that her secret visitor was only a churl, and not
the knight he pretended to be, because when he came
in his master’s place to spend the night with
her he kissed her neither coming nor going, but simply