he was engaged to a sweet and charming young girl.
Then it was that he met a young woman at Graz,
Laura Ruemelin, 27 years of age, engaged as a
glove-maker, and living with her mother. Though
of poor parentage, with little or no knowledge
of the world, she had great natural ability and
intelligence. Schlichtegroll represents her
as spontaneously engaging in a mysterious intrigue
with the novelist. Her own detailed narrative
renders the circumstances more intelligible.
She approached Sacher-Masoch by letter, adopting
for disguise the name of his heroine Wanda von Dunajev,
in order to recover possession of some compromising
letters which had been written to him, as a joke,
by a friend of hers. Sacher-Masoch insisted
on seeing his correspondent before returning the
letters, and with his eager thirst for romantic adventure
he imagined that she was a married woman of the aristocratic
world, probably a Russian countess, whose simple costume
was a disguise. Not anxious to reveal the prosaic
facts, she humored him in his imaginations and
a web of mystification was thus formed. A
strong attraction grew up on both sides and, though
for some time Laura Ruemelin maintained the mystery
and held herself aloof from him, a relationship
was formed and a child born. Thereupon, in
1893, they married. Before long, however,
there was disillusion on both sides. She began
to detect the morbid, chimerical, and unpractical
aspects of his character, and he realized that
not only was his wife not an aristocrat, but,
what was of more importance to him, she was by no means
the domineering heroine of his dreams. Soon
after marriage, in the course of an innocent romp
in which the whole of the small household took
part, he asked his wife to inflict a whipping on him.
She refused, and he thereupon suggested that the servant
should do it; the wife failed to take this idea
seriously; but he had it carried out, with great
satisfaction at the severity of the castigation
he received. When, however, his wife explained
to him that, after this incident, it was impossible
for the servant to stay, Sacher-Masoch quite agreed
and she was at once discharged. But he constantly
found pleasure in placing his wife in awkward
or compromising circumstances, a pleasure she was too
normal to share. This necessarily led to much
domestic wretchedness. He had persuaded her,
against her wish, to whip him nearly every day,
with whips which he devised, having nails attached
to them. He found this a stimulant to his literary
work, and it enabled him to dispense in his novels
with his stereotyped heroine who is always engaged
in subjugating men, for, as he explained to his
wife, when he had the reality in his life he was no
longer obsessed by it in his imaginative dreams.
Not content with this, however, he was constantly
desirous for his wife to be unfaithful. He
even put an advertisement in a newspaper to the effect
that a young and beautiful woman desired to make the
acquaintance of an energetic man. The wife,