At marriages in South Arabia, the bride and bridegroom
have to sit immovable in the same position from
noon till midnight, fasting, in separate rooms.
The bride is attended by ladies, and the groom by
men. They may not see each other till the night
of the fourth day. In Egypt, the groom cannot
see the face of his bride, even by a surreptitious
glance, till she is in his absolute possession.
Then comes the ceremony, which he performs, of uncovering
her face. In Egypt, of course, this has been
accentuated by the seclusion and veiling of women.
In Morocco, at the feast before the marriage,
the bride and groom sit together on a sort of
throne; all the time, the poor bride’s eyes are
firmly closed, and she sits amidst the revelry
as immovable as a statue. On the next day
is the marriage. She is conducted after dark
to her future home, accompanied by a crowd with lanterns
and candles. She is led with closed eyes
along the street by two relatives, each holding
one of her hands. The bride’s head is held
in its proper position by a female relative, who walks
behind her. She wears a veil, and is not allowed
to open her eyes until she is set on the bridal
bed, with a girl friend beside her. Amongst
the Zulus, the bridal party proceeds to the house of
the groom, having the bride hidden amongst them.
They stand facing the groom, while the bride sings
a song. Her companions then suddenly break
away, and she is discovered standing in the middle,
with a fringe of beads covering her face. Amongst
the people of Kumaun, the husband sees his wife
first after the joining of hands. Amongst
the Bedui of North East Africa, the bride is brought
on the evening of the wedding-day by her girl friends,
to the groom’s house. She is closely muffled
up. Amongst the Jews of Jerusalem, the bride,
at the marriage ceremony, stands under the nuptial
canopy, her eyes being closed, that she may not
behold the face of her future husband before she reaches
the bridal chamber. In Melanesia, the bride
is carried to her new home on some one’s
back, wrapped in many mats, with palm-fans held
about her face, because she is supposed to be modest
and shy. Among the Damaras, the groom cannot
see his bride for four days after marriage.
When a Damara woman is asked in marriage, she
covers her face for a time with the flap of a headdress
made for this purpose. At the Thlinkeet marriage
ceremony, the bride must look down, and keep her
head bowed all the time; during the wedding-day,
she remains hiding in a corner of the house, and the
groom is forbidden to enter. At a Yezedee
marriage, the bride is covered from head to foot
with a thick veil, and when arrived at her new
home, she retires behind a curtain in the corner of
a darkened room, where she remains for three days
before her husband is permitted to see her.
In Corea, the bride has to cover her face with
her long sleeves, when meeting the bridegroom at the
wedding. The Manchurian bride uncovers her face
for the first time when she descends from the