it almost invariably happened that every sign of modesty
at once disappeared.[32] In the special and elementary
conditions of parturition, modesty is reduced to this
one fear of causing disgust; so that, when that is
negated, the emotion is non-existent, and the subject
becomes, without effort, as direct and natural as
a little child. A fellow-student on similar duty,
who also discovered for himself the same character
of modesty—that if he was careful to guard
her modesty the woman was careful also, and that if
he was not the woman was not—remarked on
it to me with sadness; it seemed to him derogatory
to womanhood that what he had been accustomed to consider
its supreme grace should be so superficial that he
could at will set limits to it.[33] I thought then,
as I think still, that that was rather a perversion
of the matter, and that nothing becomes degrading
because we happen to have learned something about its
operations. But I am more convinced than ever
that the fear of causing disgust—a fear
quite distinct from that of losing a sexual lure or
breaking a rule of social etiquette—plays
a very large part in the modesty of the more modest
sex, and in modesty generally. Our Venuses, as
Lucretius long since remarked and Montaigne after him,
are careful to conceal from their lovers the
vita
postscenia, and that fantastic fate which placed
so near together the supreme foci of physical attraction
and physical repugnance, has immensely contributed
to build up all the subtlest coquetries of courtship.
Whatever stimulates self-confidence and lulls the
fear of evoking disgust—whether it is the
presence of a beloved person in whose good opinion
complete confidence is felt, or whether it is merely
the grosser narcotizing influence of a slight degree
of intoxication—always automatically lulls
the emotion of modesty.[34] Together with the animal
factor of sexual refusal, this social fear of evoking
disgust seems to me the most fundamental element in
modesty.
It is, of course, impossible to argue that the fact
of the sacro-pubic region of the body being the chief
focus of concealment proves the importance of this
factor of modesty. But it may fairly be argued
that it owes this position not merely to being the
sexual centre, but also as being the excretory centre.
Even among many lower mammals, as well as among birds
and insects, there is a well-marked horror of dirt,
somewhat disguised by the varying ways in which an
animal may be said to define “dirt.”
Many animals spend more time and energy in the duties
of cleanliness than human beings, and they often show
well-marked anxiety to remove their own excrement,
or to keep away from it.[35] Thus this element of
modesty also may be said to have an animal basis.