in pursuing her; that was a part which I burned to
play."[15] It is the instinct of the sophisticated
and the unsophisticated alike. The Arabs have
developed an erotic ideal of sensuality, but they emphasize
the importance of feminine modesty, and declare that
the best woman is “she who sees not men and
whom they see not."[16] This deep-rooted modesty of
women towards men in courtship is intimately interwoven
with the marriage customs and magic rites of even
the most primitive peoples, and has survived in many
civilized practices to-day.[17] The prostitute must
be able to simulate the modesty she may often be far
from feeling, and the immense erotic advantage of
the innocent over the vicious woman lies largely in
the fact that in her the exquisite reactions of modesty
are fresh and vigorous. “I cannot imagine
anything that is more sexually exciting,” remarks
Hans Menjago, “than to observe a person of the
opposite sex, who, by some external or internal force,
is compelled to fight against her physical modesty.
The more modest she is the more sexually exciting
is the picture she presents."[18] It is notable that
even in abnormal, as well as in normal, erotic passion
the desire is for innocent and not for vicious women,
and, in association with this, the desired favor to
be keenly relished must often be gained by sudden surprise
and not by mutual agreement. A foot fetichist
writes to me: “It is the stolen
glimpse of a pretty foot or ankle which produces the
greatest effect on me.” A urolagnic symbolist
was chiefly excited by the act of urination when he
caught a young woman unawares in the act. A fetichistic
admirer of the nates only desired to see this region
in innocent girls, not in prostitutes. The exhibitionist,
almost invariably, only exposes himself to apparently
respectable girls.
A Russian correspondent, who feels this charm of women in a particularly strong degree, is inclined to think that there is an element of perversity in it. “In the erotic action of the idea of feminine enjoyment,” he writes, “I think there are traces of a certain perversity. In fact, owing to the impressions of early youth, woman (even if we feel contempt for her in theory) is placed above us, on a certain pedestal, as an almost sacred being, and the more so because mysterious. Now sensuality and sexual desire are considered as rather vulgar, and a little dirty, even ridiculous and degrading, not to say bestial. The woman who enjoys it, is, therefore, rather like a profaned altar, or, at least, like a divinity who has descended on to the earth. To give enjoyment to a woman is, therefore, like perpetrating a sacrilege, or at least like taking a liberty with a god. The feelings bequeathed to us by a long social civilization maintain themselves in spite of our rational and deliberate opinions. Reason tells us that there is nothing evil in sexual enjoyment, whether in man or woman, but an unconscious feeling directs our emotions, and this feeling