special modesty of women usually tends to diminish,
though not to disappear, with the complete gratification
of the sexual impulses. This may be noted
among savage as well as among civilized women.
The comparatively evanescent character of modesty
has led to the argument (Venturi, Degenerazioni
Psico-sessuali, pp. 92-93) that modesty (pudore)
is possessed by women alone, men exhibiting, instead,
a sense of decency which remains at about the
same level of persistency throughout life. Viazzi
("Pudore nell ’uomo e nella donna,”
Rivista Mensile di Psichiatria Forense,
1898), on the contrary, following Sergi, argues that
men are, throughout, more modest than women; but
the points he brings forward, though often just,
scarcely justify his conclusion. While the
young virgin, however, is more modest and shy
than the young man of the same age, the experienced
married woman is usually less so than her husband,
and in a woman who is a mother the shy reticences
of virginal modesty would be rightly felt to be
ridiculous. ("Les petites pudeurs n’existent
pas pour les meres,” remarks Goncourt, Journal
des Goncourt, vol. iii, p. 5.) She has put
off a sexual livery that has no longer any important
part to play in life, and would, indeed, be inconvenient
and harmful, just as a bird loses its sexual plumage
when the pairing season is over.
Madame Celine Renooz, in an elaborate study of the psychological sexual differences between men and women (Psychologie Comparee de l’Homme et de la Femme, 1898, pp. 85-87), also believes that modesty is not really a feminine characteristic. “Modesty,” she argues, “is masculine shame attributed to women for two reasons: first, because man believes that woman is subject to the same laws as himself; secondly, because the course of human evolution has reversed the psychology of the sexes, attributing to women the psychological results of masculine sexuality. This is the origin of the conventional lies which by a sort of social suggestion have intimidated women. They have, in appearance at least, accepted the rule of shame imposed on them by men, but only custom inspires the modesty for which they are praised; it is really an outrage to their sex. This reversal of psychological laws has, however, only been accepted by women with a struggle. Primitive woman, proud of her womanhood, for a long time defended her nakedness which ancient art has always represented. And in the actual life of the young girl to-day there is a moment when, by a secret atavism, she feels the pride of her sex, the intuition of her moral superiority, and cannot understand why she must hide its cause. At this moment, wavering between the laws of Nature and social conventions, she scarcely knows if nakedness should or should not affright her. A sort of confused atavistic memory recalls to her a period before clothing was known, and reveals to her as a paradisaical ideal the customs of that human epoch.”